What are some areas that shape your life?

Question

As an individual. Things like your friends, family, job, hobbies, etc.

ya i know its kind of a weird question and i don't need any comments about that. Thanks in advance!

Answer 1

Hi Bermuda.

You have got me thinking quite a bit on how to answer your question!  Life for me has revolved a lot around my thoughts of myself, others, my environment, and the same from others - their thoughts about themselves, others and their environments.  Then there are the reactions and actions in relation to these thoughts - what were the reactions and actions, do I remember them as I type this reply to you now and how much did it affect me - me knowing it did or allowing it, or been to young and "naive" to do anything about my opinions on the actions and reactions.  Then there are the judgements on those - internal and external - internalised - not told to outside sources and then ones that are - the external ones.  Then you get society and the process of judgements, thoughts, actions, reactions, responsibilities, and so on.  So yes, lots of things can influence you if you decide to allow them to, or not.  I'm in a stage of reconcilliation with myself and of great questioning of the above.  Should I have put my opinion on someone else that didn't want it, need it, or who was not in a position to give me their opinion on it, then I have to look at that too.  So I guess, for me, a lot of my life comes down to awareness.

Answer 2

What does not shape ones life?

Major experiences are: LSD, traveling, close friends, Ketamine, intense situation where one stays regardless of how uncomfortable or scared one is and Art.

Answer 3

good morning sister

great question

there are many things that shape a person life.

1 parents

they are the most important things which shape the person life,behind sucess there is hand of parents,they give moral support,love,care,they give birth to us,if parents will became careless,the life of an adult will destroyed,so parens should neither be too strict nor should make there childern free,there are many parents who explote there kids,they want to make them,what they want,as my mother and father,they want to make me a doctor but i say no and i want to became an philosopher,they love my sisters because she is doing mbbs.

so sister parents they shape the live,there are many students who commit sucide because of the parents explotation in india,there are many who got success because there parents they kept there childs in disciplane,and give moral and all type of support.

great indian philosopher and politican kautilya had said

love your child like darling till 6 years of age

from 7 to 17,scold them and we can also beat them when they will do mistakes

but when child crosses the age of 17 than parents should treat them like there friends,they should not misbheave with them otherwise they can revolt and can also leave your home,treat you adult kids like freinds.

2 friends

they play an role in shaping my life, i had always good freinds who keep away themselves from bad habits,my best freind is an yoga teacher,there are some freinds also who do smoking but they are also nice guys.

friedship also shape a person life,there are many innocent boys and girls,who make wrong friends and they also get trap into bad habits of drinking,smoking and drugs taking,so we should make good choice of our friends.

great politican kautilya had said" never share your important secret even with your best friend because tommorrow he can became your enemy and can open all your secrets"

same thing happen to me,i had my friend and he open all the secrets,so i will advice you sister never share your important secret with anyone.

3 hobbies

that also shape your life,i perform yoga daily,that make me physically and mentally fit,there are some nice hobbis that can shape the life of the person,for example i had hobbi to give milk to the stray dogs daily in the night 1 kg,whenever i go for niit i give my half lunch to blind person,such type of hobbis can make a nice citizen

reading religious books also is good hobby,but person should apply that knowledge in life than only there is benefit of reading religious books,hobbis shape the life of the person,there are many person who get pray into wrong hobbis like watching movies all the time,playing video games all the times,going to disco all the time,i am not saying they are bad,we should do them few times,but there are some idiots who do these things all the time and get spoiled.

4 last but not the least JOB

it is also an important thing which shape our life,curruntly i am student but we should be aware before choosing a job

great politican kautilya had said before you start a thing always ask three questions

q1 what i am going to do?

q2 why i am doing this?

q3 wheather i will be sucessful or not?

when after thinking deeply one find satisfactory answers than one should start a work ot a job

there are many person who do job in call centre and get deepression etc,there are many jobs where seniors exploite juniors a lot like in army,so we should think before doing a job that is going to shape our life.

i will say there is tension in all the jobs and hard work too

1 if you are in army you will travel a lot

2 if you are an actor or sports man you will got fame,

3 if you are an teacher you will got great respect.

4 if you are business man you will earn a lot but there will be risk if business get flop you will be no more.

5 if government jobs a person get fix salary.

all these jobs person had differnt types of life and different type of life schedule and jobs shape human life in different ways

1we should never do a job which we dont like

2 we should never warn money with dishonesty.

3 which will never do that job that will be harmful for the nation.

there are many other things like religion,politics,the place where you live,enviroment which shape our life.

hope i answer the question to the best of my abilities

god bless you sister and will give you strenght,power and beauty,all the best for the future and for you job

Answer 4

the relationships you create with others and what you do in these relationships (friends,lovers,classmates,etc.) shapes your morals and ideas to who you are today ^^

Answer 5

my job, my hobbies, and most of all, my mental attitude - to stay positive :)