What are some of your interpersonal stressors?

Question

What are some of your interpersonal stressors?

Answer 1

when people act like I OWE THEM something, I have to stop myself from putting my foot in their azz.

Answer 2

my job, it sucks!

Answer 3

Some of my interpersonal stressors? I do not understand the meaning of the link between "interpersonal" and "stressors", as the first word seems to be a description of a particular situation between several people in INTERACTION with somebody and the second word "stressors" seems to be an already made class of people having the same ability, that of "stressing people without any place for the individual except themselves"! If you mean by "stressors" not human beings but behaviours, I would say that what interferes with what belongs to me and what belongs to others is one of my "stressors=behaviours" because I often notice that, most of the time, my "interpersonal" behaviours are just slightly different from the people I meet in similar situations as far as I know the codes of behaviour we have in common. That difference is my identity and even though it "belongs to me", I think that nowadays as in previous times, some people with other codes than the ones which I have built with them try to make me think that I "am stressed just because it would be a characteristic of my identity, or personality, or temper" whereas they use other codes that they have never defined with me that refer, for instance to psychology or other "sciences", just because their "behaviour" tends towards other sorts of relationships. The question you asked was interesting and so large that I expect you just wanted me to stop know. Why? Because some people said that my sentences are too long and I would not like to "break the link" or to "dig the ditch" or to "build a wall" without you telling me where your borders are, your limits are, your place is. It would be another "stressor" for me if I had passed through the frontier because I would then have to face either an enemy or a friend!!! I would say here that I would have to face enemies because I would have broken a law, that of writing. I would then deserve some sort of punishment that the law would imply in such a case. Which law? Who punishes? These matters are social and not matters of pleasure or dispair! What we call "stressors" depends on each one's way of building our world with our words. It is just a structure, it is empty, and we fill the structure according to what we feel, whatever the "inter-personal" structures,which we fill according to what we socially institute. Another of my "stressor" would be that I would have been too far away from what you had been after. But, again, it will only be my own business, it will only be the way I will have my desire structure built. Not everything comes from everybody. Balance, just balance.

Answer 4

When I am trying to stay positive, think good thoughts and see/feel good results and some of the people around me are negative.  Sometimes makes me what to remove myself from the negative energy.  How about you?