What are some reasons to break up with you boy/girlfriend?

Question

If you say yes to them asking you out,or if you ask someone out,why would you break up if you like or even love each other? Please answer all questions,not just one.

Answer 1

If they had another I would break up with them . I don't want to share!

Answer 2

cheating,not spending enough time with you,treating you like c**p

edit: a reason why you break up if you like/love someone is in hopes of finding someone even better then the person you left.

Answer 3

Well if you really did lover her or him I would not break up with them unless they cheat on you or you think that they are a bad person.  Get to know them more.  Do not break up with them just because you like someone els. They (aspecially the girl) will hate your guts! Hope this helps.

Answer 4

if they turn g*y or cheat on you.

Answer 5

Im a bit confused by this question?

I would break up with a person; if they cheated on me, if i felt we didnt really get on, if he flirted with any other girls seriously, if he kept major secrets from me.

I would love someone if i felt we had a seriously connection and he was someone i could be myself around.

Answer 6

ive been w/ my bf for almost 2 yrs and ive never broken up w/ him...hes always been the one to break up w/ me and come back. he said he does it b/c he just wants to be single and "enjoy life" yeah how nice is he? lol.  i would only ever break up w/ someone if i was being mistreated or cheated on.

Answer 7

For starters I only see one question here.

Now to answer the one question I would say that it has to do with just growing apart.  You realize the more you get to know someone that they aren't really someone you want to spend more time with.  You don't see the relationship going anywhere.  

There are a lot of reasons, but what I have listed are just a few.

Answer 8

just say we are done and say we are not goin out with anymore

Answer 9

cheating, physical abuse, verbal abuse(subjective). those 3 are the main ones.

Answer 10

this 1 will work i don't feel the same way i felt  before, sorry we cant go on ,this is not a walk in the park so we cant go on , i cant stay on this roallercoaster its making me dizzy,i think we need to see other people ,its not working out, i need a break those will all work so please be nice and compassionate good luck:)

Answer 11

There could be any one of a thousand reasons!  Are you looking for a made up excuse to break up with someone?

Answer 12

you ask someone out to get to know them better thats the point. you can like or love and be loyal to someone all you want but if they dont feel or do the same then you should break it off because it just wont work later on so why keep it going?

Answer 13

Infidelity.

Answer 14

If they don't put out then you should probably leave them if you are a guy.

If you are a girl, break up with any guy who only wants you to put out.

Answer 15

They lie constantly.....cheat.........ect...

Answer 16

They turned g*y

Answer 17

If they cheat on you, if there a jerk, or if there just not your type

Answer 18

Yes they cheat and because you might think you love them but they end up being someone completely different than when you started seeing them. Or your just not into them anymore. Hope I helped.

Answer 19

one reason could be that he/she likes someone else,

another one it could be just to complicated or to weird or he/she just sees you as a friend. orrrr he/she could just be doing that to see if you will go after them again.

i know this is probably not like on topic or anything but when you break up with them you can just say "can we be friends" i have done that a whole bunch of times and it always works out at the end. (:

Answer 20

cheat on you

lies

being violent

Answer 21

different plans for life..for example..he might want to move away for a job,.but u want to stay and go to school.or they cheat

Answer 22

u would break up with he/she on the first date because she/he doesn't like how u eat or how u talk or if ur just rude so on ur first date be on ur best behavior. You would brake up even if u loved him/her because u probably barke up in the future wether u like it or not its just the way the world works srry.  

Answer 23

They cheat

They abuse me physically, mentally or in any other way

They become very jelous and possesive, don't want me going out to hang with my girls every now and then, wants me to have NO guy friends

They abuse alcahol or drugs and won't get help

I find out we just aren't "clicking" don't have any of the same interest, boring conversations, etc

We have religions beliefs that are so conflicting it is causing problems (I am christian and my boyfriend doesn't have a religion but we respect that and we're fine.. so it must be an argumentative thing)

Poor hygien

They gain a lot of weight and arent willing to try and be healthy (this is not a you look fat thing, this is a if you don't care for yourself and your own health, you won't take care of yourself or me)

Spend very carelessly and you have to bail them out of bad money situations.

I'm thinking you might be young and your 14 year old gf broke up with you.. if that is the case you can ignore my answer because it's more for adults.

Answer 24

say u r not feeling a spark!and u want a relationship that would last for a 2 years!that is a ex.!but yes there is thousands of reasons!^^

cheating and not staying with u when u r near death!good ex.i know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:))))))))))))))...

Answer 25

there to bossy

u dnt like them any more

just cus

cus u found some one better

Answer 26

If you loved/liked the person but you also liked someone else

They cheated on you

They were not what you thought they were

They were vain?

I dont know what the rest of your questions are: as in you said please answer ALL but i dont know all?

Um hope i helped =)

Answer 27

they probably have found someone else. I know from experience.

Answer 28

Sometimes even if you love someone you begin to see that long term this relationship is just not going to work out: one wants kids and the other doesn't, one has a drinking or gambling problem, there is cheating, lying or you just plain old don't love that person anymore.  Relationships and feelings are very tricky which makes it all the more special when you meet "the one."  

Answer 29

you rushed into things? or this is going to fast for me? or give me time?