I want to know how I can end birthparents getting scammed?
I was forced to give my son up for adoption 11 years ago. Everyone says the adoption movement has changed and modern adoption no longer includes the birthparents being treated like trash (like in the 50's with unwed mother's homes). But, it is a complete lie. I was treated horribly by everyone involved (my family, adoption agency, courts, hospital, adoptive parents).
I was basically a child giving up a child and I was never informed of MY rights until it was way too late. I was threatened by my family to give my son up and the adoption agency sugar coated lies of open adoption (which can never be legally binding anyways).
I was never informed or counseled by anyone outside the adoption agency...all they saw was the money.
Since then I have met many women (mostly young confused mothers) who have been swindled out of their children. What are some things I can do to try and change this for future birthparents?
Thanks!
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