What are some tips to help my shyness?

Question

I kno this topic has been out on here many of times...but I need help. I have trouble initiating conversations with pretty girls.I can talk to girls that I am not attracted to without a problem, but when I want to talk to a pretty girl I just can't....I get self conscious...and think that she will think I'm ugly or fat...I especially can't talk to the ones who drive really nice cars or look like they have a lot of money....I'm going to start college and I haven't had a girlfriend yet, not even a first kiss...how can I make myself have more self esteem to approach girls....I'm not really a "nice guy" but I can be nice....idk....I need help....I didn't even go to prom because I was depressed I didn't have a date....im also black

Answer 1

The girls in question arent anywhere above or below you, their simple human beings just like you.  You wont know if their the judgemental people you think they are until you talk to them. And if they are that way, then their just not worth your time. Just start with a hello.

Answer 2

Just be friendly with the girls, treat them with the respect they deserve, and if they are the type of girl that you deserve, they will respond in a good way to you.  Spoiled or bratty girls aren't fun to date anyway, so if they don't treat you with respect, that just shows you that you don't need to waste your time on them.

And don't worry about not having a girlfriend yet, or a first kiss.  I was my boyfriend's first kiss, and he was about 20 when that happened.  You'll find the right girl someday, and you'll have so much fun dating her.

As far as getting over your shyness, try talking to girls in casual situations, like in class.  They don't even have to be girls you are interested in.  The more practice you have talking to girls, the easier it will be to talk to a girl you are interested in dating.