What are some tips to keep the spark in a relationship?

Question

How can you keep that feeling you get in the beginning, and keep love alive and healthy?

Thanx

Answer 1

i think being unique is the answer to this. you must surprise her even if its things that seem stupid such as sleeping on the other side of the bed. take her somewhere that neither of you have ever been. and try new things in your s*x life. there are so many new things to try and if all fails then how about going for a new look and pretending that you have just met going for that first date again can be a real sparker. hope iv helped. good luck . x

Answer 2

lots of crazy s*x

Answer 3

10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship.

Answer 4

Go crazy.

Answer 5

After a long time together relationships change. I think it's impossible for things to feel the same after years together - however, I think that you are closer on a deeper level than the initial s*x craze of the first couple of years.  

Answer 6

To keep that spark...never stop trying. never take for granted that you have that person, because when people get comfortable they tend to get lazy...never stop doing the little things to show you care :)

Answer 7

It's hard to conjure up those same feelings you had when you first start a relationship -- there are less butterflies and weak knees after a while and you start get too comfortable with them (in that you both become lazy and less effort is put into the relationship).

If you think back to how you first started, you probably loved spending every minute you could together.  Usually, people start out with flirty notes, texts, emails, banter, etc.  You start wanting to hang out or spend time together every minute that you can.  You find joy in doing the most random of things with the other person just so you can have company.  It's all great and it's something that gets lost in the months and years of long-term relationships.

Keep things spontaneous or change things up.  Do things you loved to do with that person to bring back great memories.  Surprise the other person with something thoughtful or even random.  Remind them of how much you love them.  Compliment each other often.  Dress up and go out once in a while.  Let them know how much you appreciate them.  Send texts or messages letting them know you're thinking about them.  Never stop loving them. =D

Answer 8

After a while relationships are definitely at risk of loosing that spark. You might start to not feel quite as excited about seeing each other and things can seem to fall into a bit of a routine, especially if you see each other too much - don't let it go into overkill - spend time with each other because you want to, not because you feel you have to. But the good thing about being with someone for a long time is that you know the other person inside out and you can both become more open with each other, about how you feel and what you want. Try new things, go new places. A relationship shouldn't be based on s*x, but since you've become closer you might be more comfortable in telling each other your fantasies and open to trying out new things in the bedroom to add a bit of spice. Dress up, invest in some toys, treat yourselves to a night in a hotel, but only do things you both feel comfortable with!