What are some ways i can convince my parents to kick out my sister.

Question

im sorry, but she is no where near a good person.

she is 19. (lives at home, ugh) and just recently lost her job at a local coffee shoppe. but she has a dental assistant degree in radiology and the performance (or something like that, all i know is she has her license to perform this job.) I feel she needs to get a REAL job, and move out. My parents looked into her getting an apartment like any other 19 y/o with some chance of a good future, but she refuses to go, and i guess the rent was a great price. She sleeps in til about 1 or 2 everyday unless she never gets up, which happens a lot. ITS SO ANNOYING.....

she always gets wasted off her ***, AT 19!, ugh. and comes home at anytime in the night.

OH, heres my favorite, She loves to scare the $hit out of me in the middle of the night when she comes home. She will stand in the middle of my doorway, and just stare at me. (try waking up to THAT)

i may seem like a horrible person or selfish, but SHE IS 19, do you think a problem child such as this is a good example for 2 younger sisters. (12 13). I dont.

well what do you think.

Answer 1

save up 4 a hidden camera(or a dummy camera)and show ur parents proof that shes not nice if u got a hidden camera.

Answer 2

Talk to her and have a heart to heart but lol the staring at you in the middle of your doorway seems really creepy. tell her to get a life and start to grow up, nobody respects people that are lazy and if she doesnt do it, then just ingore her for how long you can and give her the silence treatment and dont say shes not a good person, she is still somewhat in her adolescents until shes like 20 or 21.

i liek to believe everyone deep down inside them is a good person

Answer 3

You are right to want her out.  Too bad your parents can't see that they are enabling her behavior.  She is 19, she should be able to get her azz out of bed before noon, find a job and a place to live.  Try telling your parents that if they want to help her, they have to stop enabling her. To do this, they can't help her with anything.  They may feel bad at first, but do they really want her living at home when she is 30?  Not to mention, she is disrupting your life.  They have already tried being nice by finding her an apartment, but that didn't help: Hello, why would she want to pay to live in an apartment when she can free load off your parents. I hope your parents open their eyes before the situation gets way out of hand.

Answer 4

My older sister was the same way. she was 18 and i was 17, she would wake up late and call in to work most of the time, she was alwasy getting high and drinking, she moved out for 3 months and came back home because she wasnt responsible, well it is a bad influence on your little sisters, but how bout you be there influence, and that also teaches you how not to be acting like her. If your parents kick her out, you know that she is not going to be able to live on her own, or pay for her own rent, stuff like that, she is better off with your parents, but they need to set rules for her even though she is 19 cause she is living with them so they make the rules. i know you love her, but she is the way she is because of your parents. Just dont learn from her but also try to hang out with her, she might need that. Tell her how you feel, and that you wish she should be a bigger sister than a girl thats a lazy bum basically. I Wish you a lot of luck, and i hope everything turns out great. : )

Answer 5

Tell them exactly what you wrote

Answer 6

my oldest brother is the same.  I was out at 18, while he still lives with them.  I tried talking to them  but they didnt listen.  This is a tough situtation becuase afterall , shes their kid , and they might be afraid that she could get in trouble if they just kick her out.  But try, to try is all you can do.  

Answer 7

You can't make your parents do anything.  But you might say "Mom I assume I will be allowed to stay at  home as long as I like, with no job, sleep til noon and party all night, right?"

Answer 8

A nineteen year old is still a kid.  Try not to be so judgemental on your parents decision to have her in the house.  Maybe they know she isn't mature yet and they want to keep an eye on her and help her on her way to becoming an adult.  Sit down and talk to your parents about the behavior and try to see a different view.

Answer 9

i wish it were that easy :(

i dont think your parents would kick out their child unless they were like.. 25 and jobless with no degree.

sorry:(

Answer 10

I feel that your sister needs to grow up! After a certain age, its not cute to act like that. Tell your parents you feel kicking your sister out will knock some maturity into her. Is she going to keep living in your parents home even after she is married? I feel after 18, you need to learn independence and at 19 and how she acts, she needs to learn it badly. Just explain to your parents how you feel. Good luck!

Answer 11

your not horrible you just

want your sister to get a life and be successful. i

doubt your parents will be easy to sway but try to help them understand they're helping her grow-up and mature.