What are some ways to get over something that happened or someone when it doesnt seem like u can?

Question

What are some ways to get over something that happened or someone when it doesnt seem like u can?

Answer 1

let time heal and karma to get back at  it. i know ive been there with love to many d**n times and it hurts

Answer 2

As I learned when I got older, Time heals all wounds.  Wounds, or cuts of love, are very deep, but they do heal and you do move on.  You learn that there is a reason for everything.  When I got hung up on wanting a job, and I didn't get it, I would remind myself that another job is out there for me that is even better.  Sometimes, we can't see the forest, for the trees.  We are blind in our desires.  However, time has a way to give us 20/20 on those desires.  

Answer 3

Replacing the thoughts with new ones or creating new memories that fade the present ones. Basically distraction and time

Answer 4

Time takes care of a lot of things. Before you can start feeling better, you should ask yourself "what did I do wrong?" Most of the time it was not you!! Start praying about it specifically(by name) and that should help some.  If it was a "someone" then write that person a letter (do not mail it) but express your feelings in detail!

You can be back to normal... it just takes time.