What are the chances for a husband wife reuniting after a year long or longer seperation if one has been ?

Question

living with another party. Neither husband nor wife want to go trough the emotional trauma of a divorce. Have seperated in past and reunified. Mannerisms and behaviors didn't change but are actively changing now. There are 4 children involved also. Husband visits regularly and husband and wife talk maybe fake but talk none the less about kids, his work, her work basic small talk I guess

Answer 1

There is little to no chance. They have tested the waters and once that line has been crossed there is a slim chance of turning back. However there is always the long shot. And as long as the long shot is in play, there is always a chance though it may be slim.

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Answer 2

I would recommend seeing a marriage counselor. Obviously there are tensions that you guys need to work though and a counselor can/should act as a neutral party as well as speed up the reconciliation process.  

Answer 3

I think they are beginning to feel more comfortable with this arragement and relax into being 'civil' towards each other.  Anything is possible in life, I suppose, but that is what is sounds like to me.

But....  you actually sounds like 'another party' to me !

Either case, stay strong.  Stay confident.  Have faith in whatever you desire, get on with what's good in life and stay absolutely positive so you wont sabotage it!

Answer 4

It could happen, if both parties want it to. I would say the chances are much better if neither party is living with a bf or gf. ; )  If both are willing to make needed changes and are committed to making it work, it can.  Small talk is a start, but there should be more serious talk that will serve to make the relationship stronger. I wouldn't rush it, but definitely keep on that path toward reconciliation if there is a chance for future happiness together. Just make sure, as you don't want to keep getting your kids' hopes up and disappointing them or confusing them.  Best of luck!

Answer 5

What ever problems you've had you'll most likely have again.  You're putting a lot of stress on the children every time you breakup and then get back together.  You have to think about what it's doing to them each and every time you do that.  

Answer 6

possible it takes alot of work from both partners, any marriage does.  It sounds like the two love each other they just have a few problems to work thru.  Communication is one of the main causes couples get divorced.  Another one is each partner once his or her way and in marriage u have to give and take a little.

Answer 7

It's possible because it's happened before.

Answer 8

I hope it works out because of the four children!  Joy to you!

Answer 9

anything is possible when the lines of communication are left open.