What are the common causes a couple having a fight after marriage?

Question

I'm curious because one day I might be getting married with a guy that I love and I'm so scared if we're going to be in a fight after we're married. Because that would be very scary.

I'm going to be 16 this year and I know some people said it is to early for me to think about this stuff. But then, I want to know!

Answer 1

jealousy, money issues, greed, lack of communication, and s*x.

but some fighting is healthy, its cant always be fun and games.

Answer 2

If you love and respect each other to each put the other first you will be ok IF you have the same basic beliefs and plenty of things in common

Answer 3

The most common ones are money, s*x, and the children.  Sixteen is a bit young to worry over what you will fight about with your husband that you don't even have yet.  You should be trying to enjoy your life sweetie.  Not worrying over a non-existent marital problem with a non-existent husband. You have plenty of time for that when and if it happens; and how is worrying about it going to keep it from happening?  All it will do is make you nervous about relationships.  Everyone fights at some point or another, it's being able to work through the problem that makes things better.  Communication and compassion are what you need for that, so don't worry so much about the fighting make sure that you can communicate well with whomever you choose to be with.

Answer 4

MONEY

Answer 5

In my marriage we argue about s*x and money.  Mostly money.

Answer 6

In 5 years my husband and I have fought about 3 things.

1. he forgot to listen when I was talkin

2. he forgot to came home when he said he was going to

3. he forgot that when a married man makes decisions, they make a    decision for 2 people!

I married a forgetful man. No, really I love my husband with all my heart, but marriage takes a minute to get good at. There are concerns that single people don't have to worry about.

Stay calm, you are only 16, this is nothing to worry about. Ease your mind though, my husband and I really didn't fight when we were dating and being married did not change that.

Answer 7

$$$ is the #1 reason for fight in a marriage.

Answer 8

Nothing can ruin a marriage faster than money problems. It always seems that one partner is a better saver and the other partner likes to spend.

Taking each other for granted, don't forget what made you fall in love with the person in the first place.

Jealousy and insecurity can also mess things up as well.

Answer 9

Make sure you know EVERYTHING about your partner when you both are talking about marriage because skeletons in the closet can cause your relationship to be unstable.  

Answer 10

What ISN'T there to fight about?  Finances, jealousy, boredom, p**n, exes, kids.  The list goes on.

Answer 11

Inlaws....money...kids....