What are the consecuences of love spells?

Question

i wanted to do one. but im afraid. i never done that and i have read that it can came back to hunt me.. its that true?

this guy and me have a 19 month relation but it has gone a little cold. so i wanted to do look for one spell and do it. but im a little afraid. should i do it? if i do. will it bring bad consecuenses to my life. please dont be rude i need honest and sincere answers.

Answer 1

You should NEVER do a love spell. You can do spells to help you discover your deepest desires. You can do spells to help you be more open to ideas. But like it's always been said: be careful what you wish for. It's true. You may not always know what you really want until your knee deep in it.

The best way to improve any relationship is to improve your skills in communication. Talk to each other more. Go on dates with each other where you step out of the normal routine. The normal routine is what normally causes the "spice" to disappear from relationships.

Don't take each other for granted, sit for 5-10 minutes just in quiet reflection staring into each others eyes to try to really reconnect with each other. Go out and do something neither of you have never done before.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Forget anything which purports to be a quick or easy fix - there isn't one.

Now let us just suppose that a love spell actually worked for you....  It still wouldn't have done anything about the underlying reasons for 'going cold' and so you would be back to square one after a time.

The only thing that will help is to work out why, then work out how to fix it, then work at fixing it.

Answer 3

Generally, anyone asking for a spell to MAKE someone fall in love with them is a definite no-no. Often with negative repercussions within a matter of time.

Depends on what you're actually thinking of doing. I don't see any wrong in wanting to spruce things up a little between the two of you again. But it depends on the entire situation. And if this relation of yours has simply come to the end of the road; where it's necessary to just let each other go.

Answer 4

If things are going a bit cold maybe you two are just growing apart.  Maybe you are changing and not the right people for each other anymore.  Try sitting and talking to him about it.

You can't make someone love you.  Side effects of love spells include obsessive compulsive disorder.

There are consequences for every spell.

Answer 5

sometimes the person receiving the spell feels like they're being attacked and they get hostile

sometimes it boomerangs and you feel awful

sometimes it works and you get stuck with someone you've fallen out of love with

Answer 6

Instead of love spells (which, by the way, don't exist in reality, only in fantasy) try doing something really romantic, which, for a guy, means doing something that they really like, like getting tickets to go to a game, or something like that.  

Answer 7

Love spells are fake. Witchcraft and paganism are fake. Here comes the thumbsdown! But I believe in 1 God not hundreds. And witchcraft is akin to devil worship.

Answer 8

May be he's just not the right guy for u. May be u should ask him what's going on. If u really think it's the best idea to do the love spell than do it

Answer 9

There is a three fold rule for those preforming the casting of a love spell.  That is why I always suggest having a professional do it for you so that you dont have to deal with any negative reprocussions.  

I would suggest trying this site http://www.witchescorner.com

Answer 10

Hi,

Firstly What exactly do you mean by saying its gone a little cold? Do you mean he has split from you or that the relationship needs to have some warmth brought back into it?

If its the first answer, in my experience as a practising Wiccan these type of spells DO have consequences. If he doesn't have strong feelings for you then the spell wouldn't work anyway. It all about remember to harm none and this includes causing someone to feel something which isn't real. For this id suggest you do not do any type of spell and just be a friend to him, tell him your there if ever he need and wants to talk to you. As well as communicate with each other. If you are MEANT to be together then the universe will bring you together. In wicca we have a three fold law to remember so for you id say remember this.

"Mind the three fold law you should, three times bad and three times good".

Basically if your intentions are bad the spell will return to you three times as worse etc.

If your answer is that you only need to bring some warmth into your relationship then try the following okay....

To Attract his attention

You need

* small seashell

*orange candle

*cinnamon powder

*dried and crushed rose petals

*small mixing bowl, spoon

* vanilla incense

Best Timing - Waxing to full Moon

Light the candle, take the small seashell and pass it 3x through the flame. Say:

'By the power of three, so mote it be' each time you go through the flame. Take a handful of cinnamon and mix it with the pose petals in the bowl. Sprinkle the shell with some of the mixture and imagine him feeling this attraction to you. Take the rest of the mixture and toss it in the wind to carry your request to the God and Goddess. Carry the shell with you at all times.

OR

Buy yourself a small piece of Rose Quartz Crystal. Carry it with you (even better wear it if you can) where ever you go. Rose quartz attracts love, friendship and attraction.

OR

To bring romantic love

You need

*A clear air tight container

*Lavender Oil

*Three Red Rose Petals

*One Red Candle

*One white candle

*Some red ribbon

Best Timing - Waxing to full moon

* Inscribe on the white candles wax your name and his name on the red candle. (If you don't have anyone in particular put a question mark on the red candle).

* Place the two candles either side of each other.

* Tie the ribbon round the centre of the white candle.

* Light the white candle and say three times...

" This candles in the name of me, so mote it be"

* Then light the red candle and say three times...

"Bring him close, bring him near, bring my lover so mote it be".

* Then CAREFULLY wrap the rest of the ribbon round the other candle and as you wrap you will need to bring the two candles closer together till they are side by side. Then tie the ribbon.

* Allow the candles to burn down together or for atleast an hour.

REMEMBER SAFETY COMES FIRST WITH BURNING CANDLES.

Once they have burned, you need to snuff out the candles and then bury them together either in your garden or somewhere very close to your home.