What are the hardest things you had to go to life?

Question

thx

and do you consider your brother getting married to someone, something hard to go through?

it happened to my friend and she was depressed for a few yrs about it...

she loved him a lot and it was the closest person she had for a while

Answer 1

I think it was the day I woke up and realized this is life.  I needed to become responsible for my own actions.  To stop being a party girl.  To find a real job.  And to stop being so snappy and rude to my mom.  It all hit me hard one day out of the blue.  I was about 22 at the time.  

I am glad I still have my mom and sister and dad (and nephew) and can call them to tell them I love them.  I am healthy.  I now have a wonderful husband and daughter.  And I love me.  

We all have regrets in life but once I finally woke up to myself, I saw the road I had been going down was the wrong one.  I am so glad I took the path I did.

It is not an easy path no matter how you do it.

As for your friend, she should wake up and see she still has her brother, and has also gained a sister.  

x*x

Answer 2

I think when we are really close to a relative and they suddenly make a big change in their life, like going from single to married, it can really impact us. I know for myself, I didn't have a hard time with one of my siblings being married, but she and I were never all that close growing up. On the other hand, my little brother, who I adore and have so much in common with, was in a relationship and has a daughter from that relationship, and sometimes I feel sad knowing that he's moved on to things in life that I don't have yet.

Also, I think in situations like your friend experienced, it helps to let the other person know how they are feeling. I dunno if it's an issue anymore for her, but one thing to do is for her to tell her brother how much she misses him, and feels like she's lost him. It's something we all go through, as our families expand and grow.

I'm not going to say what the hardest things I've had to go through in life are, because i don't like dwelling on the past too much. Suffice it to say those experiences made me stronger, and I'm still learning from them and learning how to live with the consequences.

Answer 3

i think loneliness is the hardest part of life