What are the limitations between the Spouses?

Question

when the wife is having her menses?

One of them I know is that no intercourse is allowed,

what are the others?

Salam..

Answer 1

when the wife is menses...u do two things that work one is go to ur gf if u have one the other oral

Answer 2

"The Prophet and I used to take a bath from a single pot while we were Junub. During the menses, he used to order me to put on an Izar (dress worn below the waist) and used to fondle me. While in Itikaf, he used to bring his head near me and I would wash it while I used to be in my periods (menses). " - Sahih Bukhari

Alright.

Plus, you can have up to four wives so don't worry.

EDIT: Well, the prophet had eleven,so can you (at least four.)

Anas bin Malik said, "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number." I asked Anas, "Had the Prophet the strength for it?" Anas replied, "We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men)." And Sa'id said on the authority of Qatada that Anas had told him about nine wives only (not eleven).

http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals...

Answer 3

1. Being kind to them

2. Helping them in house chores

3. When you enter in house, say Salam to her, smile and  

    give her kiss and ask her how was your day.

4. Give all things she needs according to your financial

    abilities  and not be miser.  Neither you purchase things

    beyong your limits by endebting yourself of credit cards.

5. You never disrespect her in front of others. You will loose

     her respect for you  otherwise.

6. You never talk bad against her paretns and her siblings

     even if you are right.

7. You respect her opinion.  If you differ try to convince her

     by fair discussion and with wisdom. Do not impose  your

     opinion on her without convincing her.

8.  Give her freedom to practice her religion even if she is

      Christian or Jew  and respect her religion. Then she will

      respect your religion and your ways of life also.

9.  Never talk bad about her in front of others.

10. Husband and wife both have right of s*x towards each

       other. Try to meet her physical needs  even if you are

     too busy doing office work at home or you are tired.

     If you do this for her, she will oblige to please you  also

     even she is not in mood.  Life of husband and wife is give

     and take.

11.Do the best you can for your spouse and do not expect

     any thing in return.  If you follow this advice, your spouse  is

     bound to learn to respect and love you.

     This advice is both for husband and wife.

12. Never hit her.  Be tolerant.  When you are angry against

      her for any reason Say La Elaha Illalllah  Mohammadur

      Rasoolallah  with deep breath. This will subside your

      anger.

13. Always listen to her and try to understand her point of

      view. Do not impose your views with out explaining her.

All the above advice goes is for wife also to care for each other and have a pleasant atmosphere in home,  so your children are raised  not in tension but in loving atmosphere.