Hey I came across a guy who is dating a friend of mine. She has told me stories about him and his mom and how badly he has treated her. I think she was addicted to perscription drugs. She also told me the stories about his dad that he has 5 kids - 3 different women. I think he was married to this guy's mother, but he had a daughter months before his son ( the guy's brother) , then had another daughter with the first lady and the last daughter with the third women ( last two daughters are two weeks apart, all this while married) Finally then came the guy who is dating my friend ( he is the baby) . His mom and dad split, but he kept the boys. Anyway while listening to her story about this guy I tried to understand the reasons why his mother was addicted to drugs. I am guessing she was addicted to heal the pain, fathering 3 kids out side will hurt anyone. Why would she leave her boys with him? I guess he manipulated things?
On the other side this guys tells her things about how his dad use to beat his mom when he came home drunk and as a kid he used to sleep with her so his mother would not get beaten. Now this is something I can't understand I can see a boy who tried to protect his mother from his abusive dad, but once she left and all grown up his behavior towards her was cold. Should he be mad at his dad for treating his mom like that. He is close and cool with his dad and very cold towards his mother before she died.
I hope my friend knows what she is getting herself into and I hope he is not treating her the same way he treated his mother. Sons learn from their father and his dad was not a good role model.
Tell me your opinions.
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