What are the right things to do and say to a Borderline Girlfriend?

Question

I should be use to her ins and outs. Her love/hate ways. The guilt she lays upon me. Other then that stuff she's a wonderful person. Why can't the wonderful person stay? We separate once a month. If not we fight harshly, with words and screaming. She is so mean with her words. Then she's an angel. What are the right things to say and do around her when she's in the bad mode. Why me. She is on me the worst.

Answer 1

She is just a mirror of you. If you wanted stability in life you would chose to be treated in a stable way. I coach people on how they can change themselves which changes what goes on, on the outside. So you have to learn what you are doing you can not change her. You are choosing this because something within you is coming out in this. Did you have anyone else treat you this way or feel unstable in another way? If you want to do coaching you can e-mail me but it is up to you if you really want to change or not....There is allot she can do IF she wants to change. She can improve her physical health which will help balance her hormones & sugar level so you can both try coaching but even if one does it will help.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Hi

since you already say she is boardline

think carefully is she someone you treasure and relaly want to sepnd the rest of life with

if yes you got to like her mood and the way she treats you and have a open heart

if not you got to make decision and cut the realtionship fast before more harm done btween both of you