What are the signs of a STRONG WOMAN who will NOT cheat on her DEPLOYED HUSBAND???

Question

How do I know (are there signs?) if my Fiance is strong enough to handle me being gone for 12 months, without her giving into temptations of getting with another guy?

Answer 1

Is she a strong woman,is she independant.Has she ever lied?Only a woman who doesn't need a man to make her happy,who is quick to stand up to you and for what is right is strong enough to stand up to temptation.If she is a stubborn woman she can withstand the pressure to kep moral values.A weak woman who can't do anything for herself needs  someone to take care of them and will fall for anything

Answer 2

There are none, you have to trust her, by the same token she has to trust you...

Answer 3

You have to have faith in her. If you don't trust her then you're screwed.

Answer 4

Here is my theory.  My hubby was in the Navy for over 5 years and was deployed for over 1/2 of that time.  And I believe (for the most part) if someone is going to cheat, it really doesn't depend on their bf/gf/fiance/spouse being their physically.  A wandering eye is a wandering eye, no matter what.

That said, long distance relationships are tough.  I don't think there are 'signs' up-front or before hand that indicate whether or not your fiance will cheat.  It's all in handling the separation.  It can be done.  A lot of people do it.  (Yeah, I know a lot of relationships break up because of it too - but you can't (CAN'T) live anticipating that.)

Talk to her about your concerns - but tell her it's not because you don't trust her; it's more based on the concern about dealing with the extended time you will be apart.

For me, I had friends (but no 'party' friends - I was not into that scene - no need for that).  And I worked.  So, between working, hanging out with friends and writing my hubby letters and family, I kept busy and happy.  I did not 'pine' for him.  I think the fact that I sort of didn't let myself miss having 'someone' there made it so that it was 'easier' for me to wait for him rather than having just 'someone' there.  Hope that makes some sense.  ...

Good luck to both you and your fiance.

Answer 5

There are no signs, really. In order to have a good relationship, you must have trust and faith in one another. Even when it is not a long distance relationship, it is hard. Hang in there!

Answer 6

The dictionary definition of DEPLOYED is - v.   de·ployed, de·ploy·ing, de·ploys

To position (troops) in readiness for combat, as along a front or line.

To bring (forces or material) into action.

To base (a weapons system) in the field.

To distribute (persons or forces) systematically or strategically.

To put into use or action: "Samuel Beckett's friends suspected that he was a genius, yet no one knew . . . how his abilities would be deployed" (Richard Ellmann).

v.   intr.

To be or become deployed.

[French déployer, from Old French despleier, from Latin displicāre, to scatter : dis-, dis- + plicāre, to fold; see plek- in Indo-European roots.

So I can only assume that your husband is currently in the Armed Forces...

Answer 7

A woman who will remain in love with her husband and not see other guys.