What are these dreams and will they ever stop?

Question

For a year now i've had these dreams about this one guy.

We met last year on my holiday - he was from South Africa and me, well obviously from England and we were both staying in the same hotel,

i like him but sorta havent told him and dont intend to and thought ah well, wont ever see him again but i met him again this summer and these dreams are still there.

I think everyone gets the dreams - but are they normal and will they ever go?!

1 major issue which is the biggest of burdens, he's 24 and im 15 but the age thing is never an issue when we're together.. i thought it was the one holiday but then we met this summer again and turns out my dad knows someone he knows and me and him often go off about whilst my dad meets his mate so i seee him often a year but not that often.

I just want the dreams to stop coz its h**l as its everyday - even during the day i think about it!

[sorry this is a repost]

Answer 1

you're obviously smitten & can't get him off your mind. meet more people & make more friends, that could help. good luck

Answer 2

Thanks for answering mine... I think its your first big-time crush...It will fade away, its normal for your age. I used to keep thinking about my crush when i was your age(2 yrs ago)...i still do now (another girl tho) but in a different and more mature way. You might also be feeling down and depressed coz thats how i used to feel (from being worried if shes with someone else/thinking of someone else/not liking be the way i do...), but not anymore. Now its out of sight out of mind...You'll get past that stage. Just try to meet other people, dont force yourself into liking any person. Dont we all need someone who we can just feel good and not anxious around or even when theyre not around? When you find that person then thats the one...