What are you opinions about bondage?

Question

lol. just a conversation me and my friend were having that poked my at my interest to wonder what other ppl thought.

Answer 1

i love it.

Answer 2

well the closest ive gotten to bdsm was using hand cuffs lol...thats about it...and and cuffs are just awesome lol.

but if people like the hardcore stuff, to all their own.

Answer 3

I think it's great.  You cut your finger, you put a bondage on it, then your good to go. Did you cut yourself you little minx?

Answer 4

To each their own,

and whatever floats your boat...

I happen to like it.  

Answer 5

With the right person. It can be A LOT of fun. As long as there are code words to end things if there is to much pain. (You'd be amazed how many times you can utter 'stop' and not mean it)

You have to trust who your with. So doing it outside a relationship setting could be awful.

Answer 6

no thank you regular is just fine

Answer 7

I'm not personally into it (I top and I hate inflicting any sort of pain...and I can take it but I don't want to) but I respect those that are.

Answer 8

I won't be tied up for ANYBODY.  And people who like pain worry me.

Answer 9

NO WAY!!  Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains scare the h**l out of me!!!  :@)

Answer 10

sometimes I deserve 2 B bound & gagged !!!

Answer 11

i honestly do like it

but none of the hardcore things thats a bit much

so  guess i have mixed feelings about it

teehehe =] +blushes+

Answer 12

bondage is great if you have that type of personality. you have to trust your Dom(me) once you really get into it. there's a lot of work that goes into that trust and relationship.

a couple of pitfalls that can happen: the Dominant person could be new or inexperienced or just downright nasty.  the play could be edge-play - meaning risky or potentially damaging and could get out of hand. the submissive could become unresponsive (sub-space) and not use safewords or tokens properly.  for these reasons, unless there's a LOT of trust between the Dom(me) and sub, routines should be worked out ahead of time, with limits agreed to and enforced.

IMHO, when it's done safely and sanely, there's been more work in getting trust and understanding between Dom(me) and sub so they can live their lives than in any vanilla relationship i've seen or experienced.

good luck with that....

Answer 13

Regarding BDSM?  It's great.  I'm a fixed-role master and not a slave, but some others prefer to "switch" roles and alternate between "top" and "bottom."  My slaves enjoy the feeling of complete trust and protection required to put themselves completely under my control, and I enjoy the feeling that they trust me that much.  There is a level of intimacy involved that most "vanilla" (non-BDSM) relationships will never reach.

Is it "normal"?  It certainly isn't mainstream yet, and most people still keep their feelings and activities in the closet.  10-25% of people do say they've at least experimented with it.  The most difficult situation is when someone is interested in BDSM but they have a vanilla partner and they don't want to lose their partner if they think they're some "weirdo" or "freak."  There has never been a study showing that BDSM alone is directly related to any sort of psychological disorder, though.

Safe words are a must to prevent abuse.  Everyone has limits and those limits must be honored for things to remain safe, sane and consensual.  "Yellow" can mean I need to "slow down" while "red" can mean I need to immediately stop all BDSM activity until I understand the situation or problem.  For example, I may have bound someone too tightly and there could be loss of blood circulation that I was unaware of, or I could have exceeded the limit that a slave was able to handle.  I never want to cause a slave any permanent harm or injury.

Anyone considering BDSM should give informed consent before participating.  They must know what to expect and voluntarily agree to it.  Everyone has different interests, levels and limits (e.g. "I want to do THIS but not THAT").  It only becomes abusive when a participant's interests are overlooked or ignored.  As long as both parties involved have an agreement, it's nobody else's business what they do.  It's best for newbies to just start slowly and engage in lighter activities for brief periods of time.  They can add heavier activities later, after determining what they like or dislike.

Again, it's all about being trusting and trustworthy, so the proper partner is extremely important.  It can be dangerous if someone is careless, and plans should be made in advance to handle any unexpected or emergency situations.  Just one example, I would never leave a bound slave completely unattended, as there could be risk of choking, fire, equipment breakage or any number of other unforeseen circumstances.

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Answer 14

"Bind me tie me. Chain me to the wall. I wanna be a slave to you all. Oh bondage up yours. Oh bondage no more."

Sorry I couldn't resist. It's an X-Ray Specs song.

Back to it...Ummm well if that's what floats their boat feel free to be handcuffed, tied up, whipped etc.

Answer 15

Do you really want to get Butter's answer on this??

You may be surprised.

Answer 16

Not for me.  But hey -- whatever anyone else does in the privacy of their own home, that's their business.

Answer 17

There's so much I'd like to say about bondage but I'm tongue tied.  

Answer 18

personally i don't think i will like it, but i will try anything once...

Answer 19

uhhh I guess it would be kinda hot to be the slave... but I'd prolly have to be really, really, REALLY drunk to do it.

Answer 20

oh h**l yeah, all for it!!!

Answer 21

to be tied/bound up and teased can be a great turn on, so yes enjoy bondage, the SM bit to venture into that one has to have 100% trust in their partner along with a complete understanding of how far one is prepared to go as masochists do have limits as to amount of pain they can take but some sadists may get carried away and not know when to stop, thats where the total trust has to come in.

Answer 22

I truly enjoy it. There's something about giving over complete control of your body to someone else. But there does have to be a level of trust between the dominant and the slave. And safe words are a must. But bondage can be really fun and enjoyable if done right.