What are you supposed to do when the person u love leaves you......

Question

and gives no reason what-so-ever???

are u supposed to sit and cry for your loss or jump off a cliff??

Answer 1

Get someone else!

Answer 2

My parrot left me and I sat and cried so much.

One day he just flew away and never came back. This happened with two parrots. It was so sad.

Answer 3

You grieve and then you pray to God to ease your pain and help you forget the love you have for that person and ask Him to bring someone into your life who you were meant to be with and can find happiness with.  There was a time I swore I would never have another relationship because I'd been hurt to many times.  It was during this period of my life that God brought me and my husband together and he has turned out to be my true love and soulmate and brought me much more happiness than I would have found with the other person I thought I was in love with.  Know that God can always take a bad experience and turn it around so that He rewards you with more happiness than you ever thought possible.

Answer 4

umm just try to forget about them and ya u should cry cuz sometimes when u cry it helps u to let it all out and get ur self busy with something so u won't think about them

Answer 5

eat more kebabs

edit - nah actually say alhamdulilah :)

@tweety - omg same happened to me exept with budgies :(

Answer 6

find some other

Answer 7

You will cry because Love is not a game, its a feeling... but then may be he or she was never yours.. Pray to Allah ~!

Answer 8

SIT & Cry , That's what i shall do.....

Answer 9

mai kahh gai ki tum na to mera lea bana ho ,,, na mai tumhara lea bani hu

Answer 10

Go out and meet new people.  Make a point of it.  It will get your mind off of 'the person you love,' keep you busy, and if he/she (the person you love) is keeping an eye on how you're dealing with it, he/she will be disappointed to see that you 'aren't sitting at home crying, or jumping off a cliff.'

In fact, it will elevate your worth in his eyes, if you get out there and start meeting 'competition.'

Answer 11

If my love is really true, then i will wait for my love till the end of my life

Answer 12

i cried *sniff*

oh god your questions are making me depressed and remeber things lol

Answer 13

Find someone new!

Answer 14

I just wont shut up :D

I will keep on going behind that person and ask her whats the reason and make sure that is a genuine and valid reason :D..

or maybe just out of anger she might have made that decision , so I will make her realise that.. NO MATTER what it takes.. I aint loosing this love :D:D

Answer 15

cry. drain out yo frustration. get over it.

Answer 16

Well if they really loved you then they wouldn't have just left like that, they ain't worth it.

Answer 17

Allah is not satisfied with him, and wants to give you a better husband, be patient, and put your trust in Allah...

Answer 18

You will be helpless & can't do anything - just remember and cry.

Answer 19

Cry...and then move on. Get back out there and meet new people.

The right person is out there....You will find them when you least expect it.

Good Luck and Keep your head up. :)

Answer 20

Well move on. Change your place. Get a vacation. Just move-on

Answer 21

The person doesn't respect you enough if they cannot even talk face to face with you. Of course with time  you can get over it, but what I would do is think of all the reasons why I am better off. Allah swt does everything for a reason, it's a test you must pass. Be thankful for what you DO have.

Answer 22

cry a lot or share ur pain wit others.....

tat wil b better...

Answer 23

start loving yourself more and more so that the pain will decreases.

pamper urself as u like and see the difference.

Regards,

Tirumalanath

Answer 24

Hi,

I believe this is not the time to cry. Just focus on what you can do best. I know, it is not easy to do so. But I think, by concentrating on your work, you can show the betrayer what he/she lost. By proving yourself, you can show him/her that his/her decision was totally wrong.

Answer 25

Wow... that's some pretty black and white solutions.

I would suggest settling down with a bit of Ben and Jerry, watch your favorite movie, and lean on family and friends for support.

If that doesn't work, go eat a kabob.

Answer 26

Cry a few tears, remember the good old times.

But don't cry for a loss. This should be seen as a great and happy time! So many new doors can be opened now.  

Answer 27

Try to find out the cause for which he/she left you.If unable to do so

ask him directly because it may be very possible for a relation to break due to lack of a face to face sitting.

If you find your fault,correct yourself and if you think that you have not such fault and your partner is wrong then think that he/she is not worthy enough for you.

And yes,indulge yourself in some activities in lieu of as you said "to sit and cry for your loss or jump off a cliff".

Good luck friend...