What are your Sun and Moon signs, and do you feel too emotional for your friends?

Question

I am always so emotional and dramatic when it comes to expressing my feelings, and sometimes I just feel that my friends don't understand me, or they are just too detached and cold. Whenever I feel upset about something, they don't understand why and they just rationalize it away....I feel like crying is the best medicine, and they feel that it's pathetic. They're great friends to have fun with, but when I need real deep emotional support, it seems that they just cannot meet it...I wish I could meet people that understand me a bit better.

Do you ever have this problem? Tell me about it, and tell me your Sun, Moon, Rising, and other aspects that you think might be significant.

I'm feeling a bit down tonight, and I need to get this out of my system.

Answer 1

I have a hard time expressing my emotions sometimes, I really don't show any emotion towards my friend.  

Capricorn rising

Sun in Libra

Moon in Aquarius

Answer 2

i know EXACTLY what you mean. i only have one friend (scorpio) who i can tell my weirdest things to, but we still have trouble because we're both so sensitive that we bicker over things in the past. i hold grudges, and get jealous when my friends do things without me, or talk about other friends. i also feel none understand me and are too frivolous for me, except the one. i have a hard time letting things go, and i ALWAYS get emotional and cry, my first emotional reaction is to cry and it makes ppl uncomfortable since im usually the exact person who would never cry.

and im so sensitive and so i get kinda hot and cold about things, and it annoys them.

im capricorn sun, scorpio moon

so quite emotional deep and mysterious and dark

but also cold driven passioante haha all in one baby

Answer 3

Me: Cancer Sun, Aries Moon, Virgo Rising

I feel that way all of the time.

I'm sure you feel this way because of your Cancer moon. Your moon sign rules your emotions and intuitions. The Cancer sign is very emotional and sensitive so that must be it!

Answer 4

Hi r u cancerian... i am a cancerian too...n have same kind of feeling many time..but being a boy..crying is not kind of me..i am not much aware about details in signs..but sunsign is cancer. would appreciate if u help me in finding my other details liking rising n all. Thanks.

Answer 5

All the time. My group of friends are fun but i cannot spend too much time with them because they make me lose myself because i cannot express ow i feel in a detached way like that. When they casualy pay out things and talk about other people i feel upset they take this so lightly. They are only fun to go out with.

however, as i have grown alder and understand myself better i have formed friendships with odd people who are closer to me then this bunch of friends. Because they are not in my group i feel free to be myself and go to them with probelms and they are more like me so i let them do so for me.

I am slowly moving away from my other friends because of this and my new friends are more peaceful and understanding. I think when you get older your friendships need to be more fulfulling and helpful.

my old group was - libra, aquarius, aries

new friends - scorpio, piscean, piscean

i would rather be alone then feel an outsider to my detached friends, while i still keep in touch. Im glade someone else feels this weay, and that you are infact a libra, because it shows that suns signs really cannot be generalised =)

-cancer, scorpio moon, aqua rising

Answer 6

I "was" the same way. I felt like i was everyones emotional pillow and everyones validator. Everyone would say i was a good listener and all kinds of c**p. But when I really needed friends for emotional support and someone to talk to they would just shrug it off and give me blank advice-It was all about THEM. So I decided to just one-by-one and little-by-little distance myself from them and drow them out of my life. I just focus on my job  my boyfriend and family . And I narrowed it down to one close "associate". And now all of my ex friends feel like i neglected them. Anyways you're a good person and you deserve better. Im an Aries so i just said "who cares  .  . and who needs them" I think the one thing that Libras need to learn is that they dont necessarily need people and thats its ok to be alone. You'll be ok...

Sun: Aries

Moon:Aries

Rising: Gemini

Answer 7

I know people are fake. that is why I don't have friends, they are too much drama and not enough emotional or real support. I don't need people back stabbing me. so i dont' get close to people who are not family(fiance and his family are considered my family).

I have had many many many aquaintences who i have opened up to and had a good time with, but I dont let anyone get close to me and my heart and my personal life, not so how others do. I put up my cold hearted unfeeling capricorn shield and let that be that. When me and my aquaintences slip away from each other without words or goodbyes, I let it be. there is no need for me to pursue and no need for them likewise.

I find myself too independant to cling to friends, so I have many people who i talk to and who I help and they help me, but i wont' invite them to my home nor go over their house. I don't go out in public with them. only talk on the phone or see them at work or where ever it is I know them from.

I am capricorn sun, capricorn rising, taurus moon, and my immediate family who I see regularly is mostly earth signs (mom, dad, cousin who is like a sister, aunts, uncle, other cousin etc). Earth can be so cool, but it can be ice cold too!

Answer 8

It must be in the stars, RachStar is a Queen, because I am feeling the same way - very emotional and a bit down. My family just  wants to rationalize my worries into some logically packaged  response.  What I need is someone to validate my feelings of frustration.  Too bad we can't cry on each others shoulders - I'm sure we'd both feel better.

Edit:  The more my feelings are ignored, the more upset I get until I'm talking really fast and intensely but to no avail.  My husband just looks at me like he doesn't get it at all.  Feelings are feelings - they aren't numbers, they aren't rational, logical thought processes that go from A - Z.  Why doesn't he get it?

Thanks for the question and the shoulder in spirit.  Yeah, Aquarius are like that.  Hubby has an Aquarius rising - yes, detached.  I guess we should know better than to expect a Cancer like response - lol; it ain't gonna happen.

I hope you feel better soon.

Sadge/Libra/Cancer

Edit:  awwwh, yes - you with that Cancer moon!

Answer 9

Im a Virgo sun with a Cancer moon and yeah i to feel emotional alot and i could get upset over the littlest things i see (but i get over them fast) but i make nothing into something and i get upset but i do emotions to me take ahold of me really fast aswell.

GOOD LUCK ! <33

Answer 10

I am the opposite, Rachstar, I get very emotional pretty often,...but I (unless I am just pi$$ed) am kind of reserved with them....I try to remain calm, breathe, think things over....figure out a way to resolve it. I try not to bother people with any of it unless I am prompted to do so. My friends, generally, are very supportive and are usually quick to lend a shoulder if they feel I need one....but they really do have to probe-not too much though or I become too angry with them.

Most of the time I can keep smiling through anything or even distract others from my own problems by trying to make them smile! (unless its something traumatic, of course) My approach of dealing with my emotions is usually by trying to understand why I am feeling this way...is it justified?...and so on. When I do seek support from friends/family I usually only wish to discuss it, listen to their points of view on the subject (not necessarily my problem, but a 'theoretical' problem...lol..)..

If I am upset to the point of tears,....I usually want to do it on my time and in my own space....I don't enjoy an audience!

If I feel like crying over something sincere and sentimental...I'll share it all day- tears of joy are wonderful and even better when shared!...lol...

If a friend is going through something emotional...for them I am the opposite,...I will stand with them through every tear and do my best (if I get the sense that they need it) to console and help them through it any way I can.....! I will even pour my guts out to them if it helps!...lol...but I am usually still reserved about my own emotions (while spilling my guts)  if it has to do with heartache!!!!

Sun/Sag Asc/Cap Moon/Scorpio

**** and yes, most people can read it all over my face, what I am feeling....but I don't like sharing it with them until I can figure it out or fix it!

Answer 11

Me and my friends get along fine.  I wouldn't hang out with someone that I was "too much" of anything for.

Answer 12

First of all what is your Sun, rising and Moon?  Nobody will be able to help you put it all together without those.  You want to take a look at where your houses fall as well, it's kind of complicated and I know a wonderful person who will blow your mind, I put it in the link below under source.

Do you have a strong Cancer or Pisces chart?  Cancer Moon, Sun, Rising etc.?  Once you understand yourself (It takes work) and surround yourself with "like" people it will get better.

I'm Leo Sun/Rising and Taurus Moon.  My emotions (Moon) is right on with my emotions, steady but gentle not overtly emotional, don't cry unless it's something like a death or great loss.  I'll come back to see if you plugged in your traits and I'll see what it looks like.  Keep in mind I'm learning but know myself very well.

Answer 13

I'm not too emotional around my friends.

Sometimes I can have anger problems and scream and yell, but that's pretty much.

I don't understand my friends too well though. They're pretty dramatic about everything!! But I truly think it's only teenage kids syndrome.xD But we still have an awesome time when we hang out and just listen to music and talk. We do enjoy talking. :D

All of my friends, including me, are Geminis

For me:

Moon/Libra

Rising/Cancer

I guess venus might be important and mine happens to be Leo.

Answer 14

I don't even feel comfortable with my friends(in a literal sense I'm bored to death) & when I do need support, well I've done became cold and detached to them, I don't even care for their support; they left me, back-stgabbed me, & disrepected & want me to feel sorry now that I retaliated back. I just want to break away, make new friends & live out my dreams now.

Sun Leo

Moon Pisces

Rising Cancer

Answer 15

Sun --Scorpio

Moon-- Leo

Rising --Leo

I wear my emotions on my sleeve all the time.Most people do not understand me at all when it comes to emotions.

I understand...........Laro

Answer 16

I'm a Libra as well and i had a great day. Sometimes i have anxiety attacks which drives my loved ones absolutely wanton.