What are your experiences with Scorpios, both the good types and bad?

Question

I'm a Scorpio.

I've noticed good and bad things said about Scorpios, mostly bad though from many experiences. I do not blame you though. I've encountered both the good and the bad types. Personally I was the bad type, then matured to the good type.

I'll just tell you a few bad experiences from the bad ones. I was hanging with a group of them once, didn't know them but were "new friends." They would always try to argue with anyone and pick a senseless fight. Once we were walking in the street and then some random insulted us for fun, so we looked, and I said to them "forget it. Don't waste your energy in a fight." They didn't, they were too much full of ego so they decided to argue. Eventually the people came out, and we actually did end up having to fight a senseless fight that could have been avoided. The next day they went to steal condoms at a store, I just waited outside, the next day they smoked weed, tried to force me, but I just remained distant. Now I stay away from them lol

Answer 1

im a scorpio and it seems like its all in fun. if anyone got seriously hurt it would be a differant story.

Answer 2

the few scorpios i met had a tendency to be big freaks in the bed room and liked to fight a lot.........just the ones i met, personally i think they are the most sexuall sign of the zodiac

im a leo were second, lol

Answer 3

well the good is they are deeply loving and passionate.

the bad is they are deeply loving and passionate.

it depends where its directed, if they are passionate that its your fault or they hate you then thats horrible. If they are passeionate you are a great friend and they love you - thats nice :)

i have a scorpio friend who is WAYYY too honest, and i will ask her for her opinion and she it brutal.. I rather steer clear of her advice for sure!

- im a cancer

Answer 4

Hmm...well, I don't put a whole lot of belief in my sign, but I'm a scorpio and have never taken a drink, never smoked anything, never fought anyone, and actually am a vegetarian, hippie kind of peace-maker.

Answer 5

Well the positive Scorpio is loyal, affectionate and protective.

Unfortunately, the negative type (those that give Scorpios a bad reputation) can have a completely devestating effect upon an individual.I dated one who was a heavy drinker, smoker and dabbled with drugs on a regular basis. His mind games and manipulative tendancies were too much for me, and I never ever knew where I stood with him. He was allowed to be brutally honest with me, and I had to grin and bare it, but when I was the one being honest with him, he'd get into a mood and wouldn't answer any of my questions. He was all over me one minute, and the next completely ignoring me, and being a natural worrier, this only made me more confused and paranoid. It got to the point where I actually found him intimidating (one day he was being very cold towards me, and any time I tried to give him a single peck on the cheek or went anywhere near him, he went psycho on me. I kissed him once and he threatened to send me home!). He was also a BIG committment phobe, like many Scorpios who have been hurt in past relationships are. Of course this relationship didn't last. In fact it lasted a short month, but during this time I felt completely hopeless and at the mercy of this bad Scorpio male.

Answer 6

well this isnt really an experience, but im a scorpio and ill stick to what i say and feel.  i p**s people off a lot.. I dont mean to! but if someone trys to hurt someone close to me im like no, you dont do that,

I usualy end up winning the fights :)

Answer 7

Why should the time of year that you were born influence behaviour or personality?  Some people are born one second either side of a star sign. Would their personality have been different if they had been born one second earlier or later? Studying astrology is a waste of time and energy as is hanging about with some of the people to whom you refer. Get new friends and interests and forget the astrology.

Answer 8

good experience, hmmmmm 13 years ago I met the one that I am married too and fell in love with him.  My first love.  awww kinda sweet.  

Bad experience, too many to count, lets see he cheated on me three times in a two year period, has not cheated since.  We broke up for a good five year period, where I met and dated another scorpio who reminded me so much of the first one, until i read in a newspaper that he had gotten married, on my birthday no less, even though he had just left my house that morning. oh but he had a good side.

My husband was a bad type as you put it, and yes he has matured into the good type.

I am a Cancer Moon maiden!

Answer 9

I'm a Libra and most of the Scorpios I met, I have not had any bad experiences with them so far.