Placing foster children into homes that are desperate for a child.
I was reading on a diff. site today about a foster mother who opened her home to foster children. In her state they have a year for the natural parents to work on reclaiming custody of their child.
This foster mother was finding herself angry at the natural parents for allowing themselves to be in that situation. The foster mother has wanted a child for so long, that she couldn't fathom being in the situation of the natural parents. Every time they (first parents and foster mother) talked she was angry at the first parents.
what type of impact do you think this could have on the foster child and his/her reuniting with the natural parents? Do you think this is healthy for the foster mother? Going into a foster placement type of situation, with the "hope" of an adoption, would it come in between the chances of reunion for the foster child with his/her natural family? Would the state have a better chance of reunification if the foster families weren't desperate for a child? Do "that many" families exist that are willing to open their homes to children they don't want to adopt, instead offer their home as a "mutual safe zone" for child awaiting transition back into their family? What type of impact could this have on child, foster parents, and natural family?
I am not by any means saying this is right or wrong, I support foster homes to possible adoption, far before any other type of adoption. Just putting this out there for discussion because I think this is common, and could be an interesting discussion.
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