What are your opinions on this?

Question

Have you noticed the dance videos that are out there? By famous people..

They are all about seduction, getting naked, showing their bodies off & shaking their stuff.

It isnt bad, is it? We, including me, listen to these songs, watch the vids, which by the way are pretty cool and got a nice beat. We dont call them names, do we?

So why do all these girls get bashed for posting pictures to rate their looks? If her top is a wee bit down and you see some boobies?

Or when girls put up videos on utube shaking what they got and dancing. We judge them for wearing 'innapropriate' clothes, well why dont we have a look at the video of the song they are dancing to? 10 times worse.

They just do what they see in the media.

I'm not excusing anyone by the way.

Now, I didnt write this all detailed like names of the vids that i had in mind and the words that i would have used, well because i really want peoples opinions on this and i dont want this q. to

Answer 1

Well hey, if your b*****s are naturally big and hang by themselves then that's fine.

But if you're flashing people at 16 years old for the h**l of it, then that's trashy to be honest.

Answer 2

shake your booty while you have it y wait till its to late

Answer 3

I for one, don't watch those songs, or videos,nor do I allow my kids to watch them. There are people like us out there.

So, the things you watch are just as bad as the stuff on u-tube. Bad is bad- you need to stop making yourself feel like your better then they are. It's all raunchy and bad!

Answer 4

Ok but not all of us on Yahoo Answers wanna answer questions from snotty little 12 year old girls asking if they're pretty with their bras so padded they look like freaks.  We don't care what they look like.  AND IT'S AGAINST THE YAHOO ANSWERS GUIDELINES!!!

Answer 5

yea that is right =][=

Answer 6

My honest opinion? The videos are misleading and mis guided. The "media" has somehow run away with the idea that if a woman flashes s*x then she is desirable and powerful and that's just a lie. I hate when kids are lied to which is why I write (books, blogs, YA).

Modesty is where a woman's true power will flourish. Men will not be attracted to her for her b***s but rather for who she is. This is stronger and it's more about the spirit. Just for the record, modestly isn't about being frumpy or homely, it's about respecting your SELF enough to know that you are like a precious gem.

Does that answer your question?

Blessings!

Answer 7

The biggest problem I see is when it affects young girls self image, and they feel they need to imitate what they see in these videos.  It's like Halloween, you don't dress up in costumes everyday do you?

People are always going to judge for something, it's up to you how you take it.

Answer 8

i avoid watching videos of girls dancing around in skimpy outfits, they bore me