What are your thoughts on young s*x?

Question

what do you think about people that engage in s*x at ages from 13-16. For my two cents, i find it proof of a lack of self control. **Not saying its wrong but what are your thoughts**

Answer 1

its there choice i really dont have a problem with it as long as they know there ready.

Answer 2

I agree with you. Us young people should be aware we make bad decisions easily and be aware of consequences. I don't know how people find it so hard to control them selves...

Answer 3

My thoughts...um.....it's not uncommon....it can lead to some bad stuff that kids aren't ready for......

Answer 4

I just think it has a lot to do with the way kids are brought up, peer influences, etc. because like someone said before 99 percent of girls at that age DO NOT enjoy it, and most of the guys get off quickly, get theirs, and are done.

i think kids are just bored, and see s*x in the movies, tv, and magazines and thinks it makes them more grown up or closer in relationships.

Answer 5

Well...let's see what will happen, the girl will get pregnant. That is most likely to happen but there is still a chance it doesn't happen. The younger you are, the greater chance of getting pregnant is, of course the female also must have been through puberty. So say the girl gets pregnant, can the parents afford an abortion? She will obviously tell the guy, the guys parents will find out eventually, suddenly the guy won't like her as much, and well...will eventually leave her unless he is being forced to help her in her time of need. Then afterwards the parents will have to go through embarrasment and so will the daughter, she won't be able to go to school, she'll have to buy diaper and baby clothes and toys, etc. After the time comes at such a young age she'll have to bare the pain of giving birth where there is a chance of her or the baby dying and well...that won't be too good. Plus in the process of s*x she won't get any pleasure...and she will be most likely to bleed while have s*x the first time because her vaginal area will be very small and this whole experience for her will be very very painful. Or...they could just catch STD's and die in the beginning. Well...as you can see there is much more to say about this...

Answer 6

No. It is not something I approve of. Not to be a hypocrite though because I became a mother at 14. I would not approve of it though, I had s*x once, never again until marraige. Changed myself. s*x as a teen, or before marraige, and a big mistake that can ruin your life, it ruined mine.

Answer 7

everyone loves.

Answer 8

i myself think that kids these days should be focused on more then s*x that should be the farthest from there mind. its crazy but you cant keep them locked up so just make sure you educate your children well and make sure they know the consquences regardless if they use birthcontrol or not. if they want to make sure you take them seriously and get them the safety they needed.

Answer 9

Babies having babies

99% of the girls dont even get pleasure at that age.

and the boys get a fast release, and child support payments

Answer 10

Wish the kids would have MORE respect for their bodies than what I see here.  It is cold, clinical, want to have intercourse, no feelings involved.  Then for girls crushing disappointment when it hurts and there are no fireworks and the guy comes immediately and it is all over.  Blaaahh!  

One kid told me "Making love is for OLD people.  We kids just want the hot feelings."

and they don't even know what those are.

Answer 11

I agree. Lack of self control explains it all.

They don't understand that it is possible to NOT have s*x, basically.

They do whatever they want without thinking of the consequences, and when something DOES happen, they have no idea what to do. Like it could happen to anyone in the world, but never them. I think it's ignorance.

Whatever, I'm 17, and have chosen to not have s*x until the time is right, and I am actually ready for it. I have self control, unlike most, obviously. =]

Answer 12

at the young ages of 13-16 most teens dont even kno wat s*x really is.

Answer 13

Well I think it is wrong to have s*x at all if you are not married. s*x is a big responsibility and can have lots of consequences that a lot of young people are not ready for. It can mess up your life and the life of others in certain situations. I think that life is hard enough especially for young people these days that adding extra stress and possible complications just isn't the best thing to do. I have younger sisters that have gone through reaaly tough situations because of the decisions they made. Please be very careful and think about what I said. Good luck on a great future.