What behavior/acts are NOT allowed between Muslim girl & boy ,before marriage ? please in details..thank you

Question

besides having sexual relations...what else ????

Answer 1

Seducing,flirting,masturbation & the list goes on.

Answer 2

Well, there is actually NO dating in Islam. That is, you are not allowed to look at someone with lust, as it is obvious from the following verses:

024.030 Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.

024.031 And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of s*x; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.

Al-Qur'an, 024.030-031 (An-Noor [The Light])

Touching with lust, i.e. caressing, holding, hugging, and touching hands with lust, are all prohibited because they all lead to premarital s*x:

017.032 Nor come near to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils).

Al-Qur'an, 017.032 (Al-Isra [Isra, The Night Journey, Children of Israel])

You can notice how the verse says "Nor come near" or "Don't come close to" and it doesn't say "Don't commit". Which is to say, don't even come near to it. That is, things leading to illegitimate s*x are prohibited.

Allah knows best.

Peace be with you.

Answer 3

masturbation is haram  

Answer 4

i think that what's important is knowing the boundaries. humans are not animals, a boy and a girl can hug and kiss but that doesn't mean they have to end up having s*x!!! from kissing to taking off your clothes and actually get down doing it there's a long way to go!!! but anyhow i can see the point somewhat far off

Answer 5

Anything which is haram between girl & boy before engagement is also haram before marrage becaue they are still non-maehrams!

Answer 6

I don't mean to be harsh. But judging by the response of most the Muslims on in this section I would say they would like to keep boy and girls segregated before they get married. Any contact between a male and female who are not married is deemed haram.

Peace & Love

Atheist