What can't a shy guy resist?

Question

because i really want to show him that i still care about him even though i said i wanted to be friends. he's so much more awkward around me and thinks about what he does before he does it.

he hardly every speaks to me either. he's really shy around me though, yet the way he acts around me is the same.

i want to show him that i really still do like him, even though i myself, do shy in front of him aswell.

i made a mistake of saying i wanted to be friends, but it was only because i was scared of the thought of somewhat actually liking me and i got in a bit of a panic. He is the first guy i have actually felt so much for aswell.

what should i do? i dont want to push him or do something that is going to make him think im not being serious. he hardly is good on us communicating and a letter wouldn't be helpful.

should i just flirt or make him get jealous, throw hints.. would this work?

what other things could i do? any ideas on what could work?

Answer 1

If he's as shy as you say, get right to the point. Tell what you just posted, and try to see if he's willing to share his prospective. There's no room for confusion between your relationship. A conclusion is needed, and more misunderstanding won't solve anything.