What can I do? Friend trouble?

Question

I'm really pissed off with two of my mates. We went on a school trip today but i didn't know my other friend (Fiona) was coming so me and my mate (hannah) had organised to sit together. On the way there i sat with hannah but when it was time to go on the way back the teacher said pair up, Fiona grabbed hannah and went you're my partner, and hannah didn't say Sorry Claire already asked. I know this seems childish but i had to sit on my own for a 2 hour bus trip. If Fiona didn't have a partner it's her fault for not asking someone. I didn't want a huge fight so i didn't let on that i was mad, but I feel like I'm going to end up just shouting at them tomorrow because I'm still really mad

Answer 1

Claire, I applaud you for not letting on you were mad.  Some people may disagree with me, but in this case I don't think there is anything to be gained by having it out with them.  It would seem childish.  By sucking it up, you were not childish at all!

Now, how are you right now?  Are you hungry? warm? comfortable? tired or well rested?  These seem like silly and unrelated questions....but by being "in" yourself right now, maybe you can realise that you are not really diminished by their actions, whether they meant to hurt you or not.  If they did hurt you on purpose, I think they must have their own issues.  Nobody is perfect. Maybe you can forgive them and go on being friends tomorrow, and all will be well.

Peace

:)

Answer 2

Ok u asked for my help so here it goes lol

well i am guessing your hannah is trying to keep everyone happy and fiona probably felt how you are feeling now when she had to sit by herself.

I assume you are young and is this really enough of a reason to fall out with two of your friends.

You could mention in passing like as a joke to see how they react to it and then go from there

good luck

Answer 3

2s company 3s a crowed if i were you id just have the 1 best friend life's alot better then.