What can I do??? Please help ASAP!?

Question

Hi. I just found out am pregnant and I'm sure how am feeling. I'm 20 years old. I'm almost graduating from college. I'm planning to get my master degree. I've known my boyfriend for 4 years and been with him for 3 years. Right now am not in the conditions to have a baby. I live with my parents just like my boyfriend. He's really responsible. He pays all the bills in his parents house but here's the problem my father is really I mean really CONSERVATIVE and I know if I have this baby he would stop talking to me and my mom I know she'll be mad for the moment but then she would be okay about it. I really don't want to move in with my boyfriend's family but if that's the ONLY option I have if my parents don't want me home, i'll go live with him even though I don't want to. I can't work right now because I'm taking 5 classes and I'm doing an internship. What should I do??? Thanks

Answer 1

YOU will always need your dad come clean to him hopefully he will still take you in  

Answer 2

What's done is done. I think you should tell your parents, they may be a bit disappointed because you are not married YET. But never fear - You are on the right track educational wise. Your parents will be okay once you get married. They still love you, and you are there smart daughter. So don't' be so hard on yourself - Just also talk to your boyfriend about it. I think you should have the baby, and also take off a semester to insure the baby is fine, then take less classes So you are more involved with your child life - but you haven't forgotten totally about your education.  

Answer 3

I don't think you can find an answer on here.

You need to look inside yourself to see if you want to have the baby, you need to talk to your boyfriend, and if your mother really loves you she might get mad but i'm sure she could help you make a decision that would be good for you.

Answer 4

sounds like a problem.and im not meaning to sound like an *** but you guy should have been more responsable,pregnacy is so common now a days. DONT resort to abortion i mean if ur bf is responsable and has money to support the child there is no need to.and your 20 your parents should be happy it wasent when  u were 16 or 17 or younger like kids now a days

Answer 5

Well your parents will always be a part of you just because that just the way it is. So it would be good for you to let them know, maybe they will offer to help you out to ensure that you do get your degree. I do think that you and your boyfriend should make some serious agreements with each other and if you communicate maybe you will find out that things can actually work out. good luck to you and congrats on your focus with your education as well as your pregnancy!