What can I do about child abandoment or neglect? ?

Question

my 4 yr. old son's father had him at his mothers house and decided to leave him there and go get on a bus to leave state. please help!!!!

Answer 1

call the police and make a statement, report it, whatever. just have proof of the incident for a judge some day

Answer 2

As a mother of 2 girls I understand why are you concern ...that all depends , how your son get along with his granpgrandparentsif the father is not been resporesponsibleake him to court , make some rules ...he can see your son in your house , remember his 4 he understand whats going on ...when it come to your child , you are the person that knows whats best for him  

Answer 3

See a lawyer as soon as possible, and go get your son right now, and tell the father's mother that she should not participate in custody issues and that she had a duty to inform you of her son's leaving the state and leaving the boy in her care.

You are his mother, assuming you're a decent one, you need to stand up strong now and take charge of this situation.  

Answer 4

Contact your lawyer immediately, especially if this is covered in your custody settlement.

Answer 5

Go pick him up.  Call the police or child services.

Answer 6

Call the cops and tell them what he did.  That is completely out of line and he could get in serious trouble for abandoning that child.  He sounds like a real loser.  

Answer 7

Go pick up your son.  Call a lawyer and have a custody agreement drawn up that establishes visitation guidelines.