What can I do about my job?

Question

On Thursday two weeks ago, I got sick and couldn't go to work for 2 days. Over the weekend my husband got drunk and gave me a black eye. I just couldn't face going in to work like that so I called in on Monday and Tuesday. On Wednesday, I knew I couldn't keep this up so I didn't even call. I haven't answered the phone and they sent me a certified letter saying I was going to be terminated for job abandonment. I had been at this job for nearly 4 years. I know I need to talk to them but I'm so ashamed and my eye is very swollen and bruised still. I know I've lost my job but I didn't want it to be on these terms. What to do?

Answer 1

First of all, YOU NEED TO GET RID OF YOUR LOSER HUSBAND! Then, you need to go and talk to your employer face to face and be honest with them. I'm pretty sure they will understand and give you another chance. Just be strong and don't feel ashamed..you are human and so is your employer. They will understand.

Answer 2

Like the other posters said, it's time to get rid of OJ, I mean, your husband.

Call your supervisor and set up a meeting.  Be honest - s/he'll see your eye anyway.  Once you explain the circumstances, hopefully they will understand.  You may have ruined your chances by not calling on Wednesday, but you have to try.  I know it's embarrassing but you need to hang onto your job.  

I've seen 2 good friends put up with abusive relationships.  One friend finally left him after being hospitalized.  The other friend wound up dead at his hands.  I still see her children every month and spend time with them.  Don't let yourself become a statistic!  Please, realize you're not his punching bag.  You don't need someone who treats you this way.  Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

well first, you need to leave your husband. why would you be with someone who "dets drunk and gave me a black eye"?? it sounds like this isn't the first time it happened. be strong and leave him.

and second, you should talk to your employer. if you have been working for them for so long it is possible to talk things out and at least stay on good terms for a good job reference. You don't sound like a very strong person; you let your husband beat you and lost your job because of it. it sounds like you need to turn your life around. so there is no better time then the present. but you have to figure something out because that kind of life style is not healthy. hope you can find the help you need.