My son started kindergarten a month ago, he went to preschool (public) before also. I never got compliants about his behavior from his pre-k teachers. They tested both of my sons for Austism because of the problem his brother has, but this son came up negative for anything on the spectrum. Now in kindergarten his teacher is telling me he talks out of turn a lot, gets out of his seat a lot, and needs directions repeated more than usual. At home we go over the 'school rules' every night, and he knows them by memory. Today I got another phone call saying "Your son is the highest level reader in our class, and we are taking children from the kindergartens that can read already, and having them leave the classroom as an advanced group" So I thought finally good news. WRONG! "I think your son's behavior might disrupt the group though, and it'd be better if he stayed in my classroom, BUT my highest level in the classroom is 60 lessons behind the advanced group he may get bored, but I think its in his best interest to learn the rules with me here" So I just said Okay, I will work on the rules with him. I really don't know why he is behaving like this - I think he might be ADHD, and I don't want to 'over-diagnos', but the teacher isn't aloud to tell me if she think he has it. Who can I ask? I am really getting upset, and thinking I am just a bad mom now. My husband is gonna request a meeting with her next week. Who can I ask thats allowed to test my son? What can I do to improve this? :(
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