What can I do for a guy if the first date was great he paid and I like the guy ?

Question

Would it be cool if I asked him out to see what I like to do ? Or what ? Should I just let him keep ask and paying and paying and paying ? Yeah ... Im confused.

Answer 1

Give him a nice juicy steak and a BJ

Answer 2

A home cooked meal.

Answer 3

It would make him feel special if you asked him out to see what you like to do. If I was him I would like that very much and it would make me proud.  It's nice that you have this thought.

Answer 4

Pay for the next time you go out.

And keep trading off.

If he's anything like most guys, he'll appreciate that he's not going broke.

Answer 5

ask him out, but dont be so easy, otherwise he will look at you different, but yeah ask him no problems am a guy,

Answer 6

You could suggest something that you enjoy doing for a second date, so that he can see what you like to do. For example, I like to go mini-golfing, bowling, and dancing. So you could suggest something like that. I would keep letting him pay though, you are a woman, and you deserve to be pampered! Don't ever pay for a date, or the guy will expect it and walk all over you!!!!! You deserve the best, hope this helped :-)

Answer 7

I was in that situation before, I asked him if he was interested in me and it turned out nicely.

Answer 8

Ummm...no.  The only man that is obligated to keep "paying and paying" for you is your male guardian.  If you like him so much, have fun with it.  Buy him flowers on the next date, pay for him, even pull his chair out.  It's fun, and it's a nice way of showing him that you had fun and that you appreciate what he did.

Answer 9

Well, I enjoy cooking and am quite good in the kitchen, so I might ask him over for dinner.

If you have an activity you enjoy or are quite good at, you could invite him along.

Just open up and show who you are and see if you enjoy the same things.

Answer 10

If you really like him and want to see him again you can be nice and find an even that he might like; and take him out. This time you pay for the tickets or dinner and the two of you just hang out. Render the same treatment to him that you expect him to give to you in return. If you're seeking a future relationship with him you have to understand that it's going to be a give and take deal. Do for him what you expect him to do for you.  

Answer 11

offer to switch off on paying for stuff, or do activities that require little to no money (walks in the park). It's nice that's he's paying but it aint about the money!