What can I do for my husband (his grandfather is dieing)?

Question

what can i do to help my husband deal with his grandpas demise ?

He already has a father sick from HIV and his mother has been married to someone else for only 2 years. We have been married for 8 years and I just don't want to say the wrong thing .I guess I can be heartless at times because a lot of family have died in my life.

Answer 1

Your presences is enuff, theres nothing u can say. Depending on how close he is to his grand hes going 2 need ur support..Hes losing a part of him there isn't any remedy for that..

Answer 2

Since you lack the ability to say the right thing, don't say anything...When he starts to get down, rub his back or his shoulders and tell and just hug him.  sometimes we do the best when we decide not to say anything at all.  Silence is sometimes the best thing.

Answer 3

Just be there for him....sometimes a man needs a shoulder to lean on.....be that shoulder....nuff said!!!!

Answer 4

A Little patience, thats it