What can I do ?please answer?

Question

Hey guys, my name is Brenna.

Im almost seventeen. My question is : what do you do when you dont know what to do anymore? Its like im going through a major transition in my life right now. I dont know what to do. I need to have everything told to me directly or I get confused. I just feel really 'lost'. Im not depressed or anything like that. I just cant relate to anything that used to be important, like Im changing. I cant seen to get anything in my life right. Please help me.

Answer 1

Fear is relative to education. Keep learning

Answer 2

Dear G E G  whether you know it or not you are changing from girl to woman. I was going to say you were showing symptoms of P T S D. But upon some conversation with a female friend, I bow to her diagnosis! She has insight . You need to get a routine to go through each day. Maybe you should Get up ,do chores or whatever at the same time and go to bed all on a regular schedule. If you take care of the daily things the major ones will fall in line. If I haven't helped I am sorry.

Answer 3

Hi Brenna,

Let me ask you this, do you pray?  I know some people think that is corny or stupid but praying really does help.  Just ask God to help you focus on what He wants you to do with your life and I gaurantee you will soon find your answers.  When I am having troubles, I just pray, I don't always get answeres right away but It really does help me feel alittle better about myself.  Also you can go to your church pastor and ask his/her advice.  I will pray for you, Brenna, you have a bright future ahead and I trust God will do great things for you.  God Bless and good luck.

Answer 4

solitude.........

define your inner self.......

put all the little and big things in order........

prayer doesn't hurt either.......

ask for clarity and wisdom.......

give thanks........

simplicity and order is the beginning of understanding

this will pass

Answer 5

Well sister praise the Lord! you are normal. what you are going through is normal for teens. But you are a step ahead pf many of your peers, they won't admit they are nuts. So keep in mind that it will not last but a few years, about 21 it will be gone. And knowing it will help you take advise from us how have been there.

It is at this age so many kids lose their moral compass and make mistakes that haunt them the rest of their life. So i suggest reading the Bible it is the manufactures handbook.

Answer 6

I understand you. Maybe your mind is focused on other things and it interferes with your normal life? If not, then maybe you are bored or anxious about something? If not either, then it could just be that you're growing up, and you're not sure what to do anymore. I get this a lot myself. Sometimes, I just feel so alive and happy, but other times, I don't feel like doing anything and I feel so lost. Loneliness can play a role in this too. I think that you will be fine. It's normal to go through this process. it just means that you're human and you have to undergo some changes.