What can I do to be a feminine guy?

Question

I've kind of accepted the fact that I am never going to get a girlfriend at all, so the next best thing would to become a girls best feminine guy friend. So what can I do, as a guy, to become more feminine?

Answer 1

Dude, women fight over me and I'm walking scar tissue with anger issues, depression, and volatile outbursts. If pricks like me can get a lady, so can you.  

Answer 2

wear knee high boots in a skirt

Answer 3

LOOK.

I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE MOST FEMININE GUY IN THE WORLD.

IT SOOO SUCKS.

EVERYONE MAKES FUN OF ME.

SO I WOULD SUGGEST BEING YOU AND NOT FEMININE.

BECAUSE THEN IF A GIRL ENDS UP LIKING YOUR FEMINISM

ONE DAY SHE'LL FIND OUT IT WAS A LIE.

AND THEN TWO OF US REAL FEMALES WITH BE HURT BY YOU MALE'S BOYISH CHARM.

Answer 4

I don't really have a good answer to this question, but maybe you could hang out with some more girls or you could not act so masculine or agressive  like some guys do, you know that "macho" thing some guys do. Just show girls that you are sweet, but not soft like a coward.

Answer 5

Why unless your g*y.  Not that is horrible.Be clean.  Dress nice.  Be respectful and listen.  Show interest in what she likes.  Do not just dump all of your interests.  Be you.

Answer 6

act like a girl! lol :)

Answer 7

Don't worry about it, pal, you're already there.

Answer 8

Talk with a lisp, have a limp wrist, wear flamboyant colors, have no knowledge of sports, copy girls' mannerisms (say like, and ohmigawd! a lot), paint your fingernails, carry a man-purse.

Answer 9

plz dont try to be g*y try to get a girl friend, look at me i never give up

Answer 10

Man I've had that feeling. Becoming femine doesn't help I'm afraid ...but do it if it feels good

Answer 11

you dont have to become more feminine to get to be a girls best friend. i am a bloke and my best friend is a girl (and i am also sure i am never rely going to be in any sort of relationship with a women). just get to understand what they have interests in, what you have in common and take it from there. go out and do things with some girls and you may find one of them or maybe a few of them will end up being long term best friends.

hope this helps

Answer 12

If you are g*y then just come out the closet. If not I do not understand the dynamics of this. Act like yourself and something will happen. If you are a straight male maybe joining certain clubs or events in school might help you to meet girls. The chorus is a great place to start.

Answer 13

Yuck.  

Answer 14

LMAO... ummmm, don't. please don't. You don't need to be something you're not. You could just be that friend that is there for them, to cheer them up when they are down and make them laugh. Unless you're g*y, girls don't want feminine guy friends. At least none that I've ever met...  

Answer 15

aww don't give up!

everyone has someone in the worl, you just havent met them yet, i promise it will happen :D

if it doesn't then you can hunt me down and i'll say sorry =]

Answer 16

um become g*y.......and no i dont mean happy.......

Answer 17

i would recommend just listening to girls talk... pick up on how they talk and how they think... what is interesting to them?... what do they wish they could talk about but cant because a girl doesn't know the answer (that a boy like yourself might)... and etc. good luck :)

Answer 18

I don't think that trying to become a girls best feminine guy friend is going to be the best course of action for you, because that is just giving up. I think the fact that you are so quick to give up may be 1 reason you don't have a girlfriend. You can't just try to get with a girl one time and expect it to happen.

I think that you just need to evaluate your tactics that you are using to get a girlfriend and modify your weak areas... possibly see a dating coach? Or read a book written by a dating coach?

Answer 19

Why wont you get a girlfriend? Everybody will. Dont become like that

Answer 20

unless your g*y, which is cool, you shouldn't have to be feminine. Don't ac like a girl, just be sensitive and understanding. girls like that.

Answer 21

go g*y you homo

Answer 22

man first of all, dont say that, you will get a girlfriend, dont give up. theres no need to become feminine in order to get close to girls. you just need time and dont worry with time the right girl will come along. dont go feminine, be yourself.

i bet you are in your mind teens, so young, give it some time, just calm down. the girls will come, just be confident in yourself, they love confidence.  

Answer 23

are you ******* serious?

if you do that people will think your g*y, expecially the girls you want to be friends with.

if you ask me, you need to become more mansculine if you want a girlfiriend, not more feminine.

if you really want to become feminine, cut off your d**k, grow a ****, stuff a braw, wear girl clothes, shake your *** when you walk, and comment on how hot other guys are. that would probably do the trick, if you still confussed, watch g*y guys and act like them.

Answer 24

read womens books, get manicures and try googling it

Answer 25

Well despite what the fellows say above me, becoming good friends with a girl is great way to get their attention. After a short while they will start to see you as more than a friend. Make plans to go shopping w/ her. You don't have to carry around all of her stuff but just give her feedback on what you think would look good on her. don't make it all about her though, ask her about things that would look good on you too. Then she knows you're not just sucking up.

Basically become friends with a girl the same way you would a guy friend. Girls like to do most of the things that guys do, too. So just suggest something that you would want to do. DON'T ALWAYS ASK HER WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO! We hate that. Just show her that you care by calling her out of the blue sometimes to hang out. Listen to her, and be nice to her. THAT'S ALL YOU NEED TO DO!!

.She'll start to really like you and soon you guys could be going out. Good luck!

Everyone can get a girlfriend. You just have to give a little bit of effort.

Answer 26

Ask your female co-workers or neighbors and brace yourself for their response.

Answer 27

ummm you dont need to be feminine to be a girl's guy friend...as for being a boyfriend you just have to keep looking for the girl that will accept you...

Answer 28

Why would you want to?  Anyone can get a girl.  Look at the world's heaviest man.  Even he has a girl and he used to be over 1200 lbs.

Answer 29

dont be feminine... just be way more confident in yourself and try your best to make girls laugh without looking like a r****d. it works for me. i dont have a girl friend but im all the girls best friends and still great friends with males.  

Answer 30

if you want to be feminine thats you decision but i kind of think you should be who you are dont change or act like a girl. be the man that you are.

Answer 31

you dont need to do that you can just listen to what girls have to say and give them opinions (make sure that they are nice) and go from there. you dont have to be feminine to get a girl as a friend, and dont change because of it. people should like you for you instead of the fake you. dont change yourself for that reason.

but if you really want to then care about fashion and looks (not sure if you wanna be g*y or not) and go from there