What can I do to be more social?

Question

What can I do to be more social?

Answer 1

Join church groups, volunteer organizations, school boards, community groups, clubs, etc.  These will force you to work and interact well with other people.  Another good question would be- "How did you first meet your spouse and where?"  I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of respondents met their spouses at the places I've listed above.  And while you may not want a spouse, you still get the idea, right?

Answer 2

drink away your inhibition

Answer 3

I have the same problem i understand you,may be you can practice with your family,you can speak much time

Answer 4

Be spontaneous!  Go on vacation....go to a party....

     Dont resist to invites or offerings.  Step outside of your box!

Answer 5

TALK TO PEOPLE.

Answer 6

Just relax and talk to people that have the same interests as you.  Join a meetup.com group.

Answer 7

haa..this is also my question...

Answer 8

Take a jump and dive right in to conversation, go to parties, do all that sort of stuff. Make some new friends at work or something. Lol. Good luck.

Answer 9

Caffeine.... made me talk to everyone, i actually was a little annoying, completely opposite of myself.

But I had fun. 200mg empty stomach.

Answer 10

well if ur in school u can try and talk to sum1 who appears to have ur common interests or if u c sum1 sitting by themselves u can ask to sit with them.if ur not in school then u can try and get a job such as a cashier or a babysitter to help u be more comfortable with ur self-esteem and confidence............GOOD LUCK  hope i helped!!!

Answer 11

Ask yourself a question. What do I love doing and what makes me most happy?

Once you have answered that question then find activities you enjoy and join groups or clubs with people who share you passions and interests.

Tell yourself everyday "I am  sociable, lovable and enthusaistic now!

http://overcomelonelinessnow.com

Answer 12

talk to people

try joining sports

clubs

group activities

call people up and go catch a movie

go be yourself and just have fun

Answer 13

honestly( u probably hear this a lot but it works ) just be your self.. and dont be afraid to get a lil crazy... and laugh and just have fun.. it will show people that u like to have fun and be happy and thats what people want to be around. and if you hear someone in a conversation.. join in with them and tell them what u know about the subject. try out this http://www.43things.com see if that helps

Answer 14

join clubs x

Answer 15

keep you head up and never look down.

if someone looks at you always smile back and look them in the eye, never give a look like "why the F are looking at me."

if  you see a person that you've might have seen before in a melancholy mood, be kind and talk to them (talking with a complementary kind of way:) ) it will bring there day better than it was before (if the conversation goes ok lol)

any opportunity to talk to some one, talk to them.

the more you talk the more comfortable you get with talking about anything.

small talk is always good unless that person just doesn't like you period.

MOST IMPORTANT!!!

always keep smiling and keep it sweet (just don't be TOO fake about it^-^)you give someone a bad impression or they get what your saying in a totally wrong way. if you have any more questions that you  don't want to post on here email me

[e-mail] (don't use the yahoo one if it gives it to you)

or just search Logan thoeni on myspace or something.

hope you like your answer  ^_^

Answer 16

my question too.

what i find hardest is being included in 3 way or group conversations. so i practice on msn.

Answer 17

start conversations