My 28 year old sister has a 10 year old Bipolar son. They moved from Utah to Georgia [where myself and my mother lives] to get both of their lives straightened out. They are both on medication for Bipolar.
Though the problem with my nephew is a lot more than just Bipolar disorder. My mother, his mother, my grandma and aunt do not discipline him. They don't tell him no. If he whines enough he'll get what he wants no matter what the expense. Though he listens to me because I have and I will tell him no. I have disciplined him before. Whenever he doesn't listen to my mom, she'll always threaten him with "Don't make me go and get Sara!" and he'll sit down and shut up. I'm only in my teens, too.
He comes over to our house every morning to catch the bus for school. He always asks if he can play one of his video games, but I ground him from playing them at our house if he doesn't pick up after himself when he's finished playing.
Recently he didn't pick up his things, so I grounded him from playing his video game for the next 3 days he visits us. Earlier this morning, my mom asked me if he could play and I told her no. Everytime I try to tell him no or her no to something he's doing, she'll get mad at me and throw a fit but will soon get over it.
How can I explain to her that I'm only trying to give him something that he NEEDS? I don't want her to get mad at me all the time just because she OR his mom doesn't give him the discipline he needs, it's ridiculous. She's my mother and I'm acting more mature than she is.
Any help is appreciated, thanks. :)
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