What can I do to make myself feel better?

Question

I hung out with this guy just once; we had a lot of fun and I liked him, he told me he liked me and wanted to hang out again. I turned him down when he asked the next time because I found out he had a girlfriend and had been hitting on several other girls. Now he is hitting on my sister and denying to her that he ever hung out with me. I feel really crappy, what can I do? Just leave it alone?

Answer 1

Why do you feel the need to feel better about yourself?  So far, you did the right thing by kicking him to the curb when you found out the truth, so just leave his *** there.  You've told your sister what you know, now let her make her own decision and live with it.  If she gets hurt, next time she'll know that she should trust her blood instead of her head in this type of situation.  By the way, I'm a guy, & I know the difference between right and wrong.  Don't let this one guy ruin it for the rest of us.  There are a few of us good ones still left in this world, but thankfully, I'm happily taken by a helluva GREAT woman!  

Answer 2

Talk to your sister about it, then take a nap.

Answer 3

Do not look to boys to give you value.  They don't have any idea what is valuable.  You are more precious than gold, rarer than any gem!  Boys do not determine your identity nor your destiny!  There is only One who can give you true worth, reveal to you your true identity and assist in helping you find your destiny.  That is Jesus Christ the Son of God, read the Bible and find out who He is, what He's done, and the wonders He is about to do for you.  

God bless you.

Answer 4

just leave him and forget about him.

guys are pretty much helluh pethtic when it comes to girls.

hes just a playa!

:/

but ohwell.

if i were yoo i'd find a guy,

a hott one to be exact lol and show him off

:D

Answer 5

Shake it off. Limit the ability of people who cause you this distress in life to have contact with you.

You can always walk away. So can your sister.

If someone can't accept a no, then you know how much they are potentially a bully or worse.

Answer 6

You can make yourself feel better by knowing that you deserve better than to even hang out with a guy like that.  He does not sound like he even has enough quality or character to be worth any more of your time, energy, or effort.  

There are more people in this world who probably love to spend time with you just because of the person you are. Seek these people out and share your life with them.  

Thanks for reading!