What can I do to make this stop??

Question

My dad beat me everyday then kicked me out. I still have dreams about him and somethimes the dreams are sso bad I wake up at five in the morning and cry till I go back to sleep. I already have a theripist and Im seeing her on Thursday. What can I do to make the dreams stop?

Answer 1

you dont understand she ask the manager if he had diapers and high chairs and bibs for her tow babies meaning me and my bro . how can that not be abuse? no other mom would do that to there kids only mine would do something like that.you wouldnt do that? its not fair she said that. It was only ketchup everything would have been cool if that stupid manager didnt comeover and said something. The ppl in front of us would even have notice there was ketchup on there clothes. she called us babies in front off ppl and some stupid mother came up to my mother in mcdonalds and told her she extra binkys and pampers in her car if she wanted them. Its not fair i want to report my mom for abuse for saying those things you know? It was only a purse we got ketchup on the lady said it was a coach it cost her 300 bucks. she was crying over a purse.  

Answer 2

Umm masturbating will probably make matters worse due to the fact that it can cause mental disturbance. Anyways to the question, there isn't much you can do as of right now, but going to a therapist might help a bit . It is basically a state of mind were your mind is still living in that stage. If you get your mind out of that state then you can recover pretty quickly, but for some people it could take months or even years or maybe never. I'm sorry to hear that he does/did that. If my advice doesn't help I'm sorry  

Answer 3

My dad did the same, I have more helpfulness but your fear and these dramatic memories cause these dreams, time will make them go away or lesson, try to relax before bed, tell your self your incontrol now, be strong, you probley felt helpless, so you keep dreaming about it, sometimes if you talk to your self why your laying there about to sleep, ask- Please protect me why I'm sleeping, help me fight off demons (your dad) and keep me safe from harmful thoughts, try that every night for awhile sometimes it helps, restablishing your incontrol of your dreams, because they are just thoughts. email if you want more

Answer 4

try HYPNOSIS-therapy

Answer 5

Sweety,  this will take YEARS to get over!!!  You were horribly abused and mistreated - it will only take time.

If it's recent, you can still PRESS CHARGES AGAINST HIM.  Please, also, don't have ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM!!!

Don't talk to him, see him, go near him.  Pretend he's dead to you.

Answer 6

Glad to hear that you are getting help with this.  The first thing that comes to mind is that you should try to Forgive you dad.  It will help you move on.  Best wishes

Answer 7

When I have bad dreams I m********e and then snuggle my pillow. It might help to get a big, strong boyfriend to hold you and make you feel safe.