What can I do to mend my broken heart and forget about this disgusting exs?

Question

I feel so depressed...everytime I see my ex.... he told me he couldn't go out with me because his parents didn't want him to date a spanish girl...this crushed me and still hurts...he's filipino and I'm dominican...at work he ignored me and I did the same to hm...now what hurts is that now that they put me to work as a model at abercrombie he told ppl working there that we "hooked-up"....If he's capable of doing something like this then he probably lied about his parents. ****! this a*****e introduced me to his ENTIRE family two days after we became boyfriend and girlriend...I feel used and that I will never find the right guy...if this is a lesson then I have come to the conclusion that all guys are a******s just looking for recognition and ***. Gosh i feel like the only reason guys like me is to use me as a trophy....******* b*****s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... KEEP RUDE COMMENTS TO YOURSELF!!! i just feel extradinarily depressed....

Answer 1

Hello Marie,

I'm sorry that you had to go through that. And yes, there are some selfish guys out there, but not all guys are that way. I have one of the good ones and have been married for 32 years!

You may not want my advice but you should learn to value yourself, for you surely have many good points. Obviously you are pretty and capable of caring for others. Write a list of other things that you like about yourself and maybe some things you've wanted to do or learn and commit to doing something new. It will help you grow and gain self confidence.

If you grow into a strong and self confident person you will likely attract a better quality guy. Realize that you deserve to be treated well, expect others to do so and make sure you do the same with the people around you.

Just my two cents worth, but sometimes you have to learn the hard way and it's too bad you got hurt..

Best of luck,

Diane

Answer 2

Ummmm.  thats what trophy wives/or girlfriends go through.. better get used to it baby....

The other option is to find yourself a an old fat bald guy..........  we would adore a woman like you forever more....

Answer 3

no he really does not deserve you anyway, you sound very attractive because he is still showing you off by telling ppl that you are together so he is just a loser mr. right will soon pop up you will know him when he comes around good luck

Answer 4

Well they say that not all guys are that same way.. Don't know for sure if thats true...

I figure it this way, you have to live and love who you are and others can't handle that then its not your problem.. Think of it as he did you a favor you didn't need him keep bringing you down to low level right?? best of luck

Answer 5

By the sounds of it you seem like a very attractive girl. But don't only rely on your looks cause if you think that the guy you like only wants you for your looks, don't go for it because like you always heard after they get what they wants, they don't want it no more. Just let time go by and eventually you'll find a guy that likes you or even loves you for who you trully are, and then nothing would get in between you, especially "parents". You're young, just go on with your life and you're too good for him anyways. You'll find a right guy soon, just don't look for him. He will come to you. I promise!!!

Answer 6

It might seem a little lame, but cry with your girlfriends. Invite one or two over and watch a funny movie.

And forget about that loser. Next time you see him, if you're around people who know what he said and believe it, confront him on the topic. Say something like, "You WISH we were still together."

Do you have his mom's number? Ooh oh oh, sweet revenge. Call her and tell her what he said. And tell her every single perverted thing about him.

You're worth more than him, more than any guy like him. And the right one will along eventually. Just wait for him.

And don't go to the extremes with the revenge. He isn't worth it. He isn't even worth stressing over.

Maybe it's just me... but I think calling his mom would be funny...

Or ooh! Go to www.youtube.com and watch funny animal or prank videos. Always makes my day!

Hope this helped a little.

-elliesaurie*

Answer 7

a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to  

Answer 8

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Answer 9

alchohol, music, and smoking are okay ways to postpone bad feelings. but as far as permanently getting over it, just takes time. learn to read people better to avoid the same mistakes in the future

Answer 10

Okay..he just not that into you, sorry you need to understand that.  If you are the one, he will careless what anybody have to say.  I say look your best since you work with him, be at your best mood that is upbeat and happy about life.  Let him see what he is missing and then find another job if it bothers you more.  Just learn to never date any coworker in the future.

Answer 11

Of course you're hurt.  You have every right to be.  I'm sorry that you had to go through that.  Please don't make the mistake of judging all guys by one a**hole.  The world is full of all different kinds of people and you are just beginning to learn who to trust and who not to.  We all have to go through this process.  You will most likely not be fooled in the same way again.  It's okay to make mistakes.  You misjudged one person and you may do it again.  It's not the end.  It's the beginning.  The beginning of growing into the person you want to be.  Don't let this one person change you from your authentic self.  Keep your heart open.  You will be rewarded.

Answer 12

Just remember that you are a good person and there is a someone out there that is perfect for you.  You do not have to put up with anything that is not good for you!!!!

Answer 13

I'm sorry you got your heart broken. Most of us do once of twice. Time, time will make the pain go away altho it may not seem like it now. When I had a guy break my heart I got rid of everything that reminded me of him, burned his letters and unplugged my phone. Try getting involved in other stuff. It's hard but you will meet the person you are meant to meet someday and you will be be "free" for him to love you. Moth

Answer 14

Mamas you don't got to worry that's life we have to fall in order to pick ourselves up and learn and be prepared for the next, I think all guys are the same but you know what am still down to been hurt because we will never be able to escape from it never, let him but you know what tell people the truth be like no we aren't dating and if we did it was a favor. Girl play the game when you get a boy but a line and don't cross it if you do break up with him like him to a point then once you know he loves or likes you allot then put the second line. good luck  life is to short to be depressed over some one pathetic like that live it you don't know how much time we have left.

Answer 15

II THINK THAT HE NEVA REALLY LIKED U THEN BECUZ IIF HE REALLY DID LIKE U HE WUD OF NOT LISTEN TO WAT HISZ PARENTSZ SAID BECUZ MY BF MOMSZ DOES NOT LIKR ME BUT HE LOVES ME AND HE TOLD HER THAT HE GONE BE WITH ME NO MATTER IF SHE LIKESZ ME OR DONT  

Answer 16

girl keep your head up if people come up to you and ask u if ya hooked up tell them the truth noo.....and girl get urself a dominicano dey are fine as h**l  

Answer 17

Hey it's okay.. I was used too!! My ex boyfriend only used me for "pleasure." And now he's like off with other girls that he calls his "makeout buddies." He's a jerk, but it's whatever because I don't care about jerks like that. See, some guys are like that. They just use you because of your looks or whatever. But just have self-confidence no matter what because confidence is the key to success. Don't give up on your love life! Your an abercrombie model? That's what I want to do when I grow up! (: You should feel happy & lucky that you got a job as great as that. And also you have friends & family who will stay with you through thick and thin.

Next time you see your jerky boyfriend just leave him. Ignore him. You don't want to get in a sticky situation with him so leave before it gets worse.