What can I do to not get an early grave?

Question

Well Just got to say that I am the youngest child and a year ago something wierd happend. Well I have been mad at my mom for years because i am the youngest and she doesn't pay attention to me ( dont want all attention i just want to not fell like if she doesn't care about me) my mom always treats me like a slave and im the only one that she does that to. She only stays in bed and drinks coffee and orders me around. and every time i need money she doesn't have and then when my other 2 siblings ask for money she never hesetates and give them. so yea one day i got so mad at her that i got to hot that i was sweating, taking deep breaths and i felt body from the waist up vibrating. tears came out of my eyes and i had to strugle for a gasp of breath. my mom just said stop like if i can control that. so my grandmom had to take me to here bed and take my cloths of and make me eat and drink things. and after i laid down she was screaming for me to make her coffee, but my grandmom said no and my mom left curing and huffing and puffing and then when i opened my eyes my sight kinda blured a little bit but then when back to normal for like 3 seconds and then it left. after i fell asleep i woke up with no pain but my body was extremely tired. to then i ate a sandwich and fell back to sleep. what do you think about me or my mom. IS there something wrong with me and if it happens what should i do? Have you have something like this?

Answer 1

Move out. And learn to spell to love. I'd say tell here how you feel and if she won't compromise, leave.

Answer 2

There is a list of things that it could be from you over stressed and brought it on. It was a seizure, or it could be beginning stage of diabetes. There is alot that it could be. But if it happens again go to the doctor right away and if no one will take you call 911. I went through my life with joint pains and chest pains. My mother said I was faking and everyone called me a hypochondriac. Well here I am at 24 and 27 weeks pregnant and I am being tested for a mitral valve prolapse (they are sure thats what I have) it causes an extra heart beat and chest pain. Then I was seen cause my big toe was in so much pain I could not walk. Well I got told it is gout (protein that I could not digest crystallized and deposits in my joints. It s a form or arthritis.) As for your mom I am sorry to hear you feel like that. Every person I know say they youngest is spoiled and the youngest sees it to. It sounds like your grandma is a good person talk to her. Try talking to your siblings too. it sounds like your mom is upset or depressed and is taking it out on you.  

Answer 3

maybe it could be a panic attack? They can feel pretty intense. I've been so mad before that my jaw locked up and I literally saw red. Sounds to me like you just got really worked up. Try some deep breathing and counting.