This person I just met wants to hang out all the time, go out to eat, movies, bars, etc. I don't mind going out now and then but can't afford to all of the time. She called me up a few days ago and wanted to go out of town this weekend, just a couple single gals out to have a good time in a new city and all. It sounds fun enough and I totally would be up for it if I was not so broke. I told her that I just paid a bunch of bills and I am flat busted and that this weekend is a no go for me. She seemed to understand and said no hard feelings maybe we can go another time. Then (2 days later mind you) she calls me up and wants to eat out. What part of "I'm Broke" does she not get? I hate telling her no all the time but I just can't afford it and I would feel terrible if I had to sponge off her the whole evening. What can I say to her to get this message through to her? I'm totally trying to hold my cool with her and not get angry but she just doesn't seem to get it that I have no money to go out. I've invited her to my place for movies and just hanging out, but she isn't interested. What can I say to her that won't hurt her feelings? I really like hanging out with her...she is really fun. I just can't afford to go out every night.
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