What can I say to my sister... please help!?

Question

My sister & I are very close to eachother. We are only 17 months apart. She's 15 (soon to be 16) and I'm 14.

She's been doing things that aren't good..like sneaking out and drinking. She stayed at a friends last week and went out and got wasted and didn't get in until 3am. My mom found out and wasn't going to let her at her house. And her friend is only 13!! younger than me! And my mom took us shopping today and we had a talk. She was saying "___ I'll let you over ___'s house, but I trust you to be in by curfew and nothing bad."

Well I heard she was going out again tonight and I don't doubt it at all. I tried talking her out of it. I said "No offence, but I don't think you should go out tonight because mom trust's you and gave you a 2nd chance. Please don't s***w up especially after she took us shopping today..."

She didn't reply properly, all she said was "k."

What else can I say to her so she can feel kind of guilty and change her mind?

Please help, I don't want her regretting anything or s******g things up.

Answer 1

tell your mom and tell her to ground her to catch her some how so she doesn't know that you told her  

Answer 2

I agree with the first person.

And I'll add that you'll probably do things she doesn't approve of when you're her age.  Remember that.

Answer 3

Try talking to her and finding out why shes doing these crazy things and acting the way she is. Although sometimes everybody has to just learn from experience. I know you probably think telling on your sister would make her mad at you, but if shes getting into serious trouble then wouldn't you rather have her mad at you than dead. Its something to think about.

I hope I was of some assistance.

good luck

Answer 4

I would tell your mom because I have known teens to sneak out and do the wrong thing at night and be hurt or dead in a car accident.

Answer 5

You need to threaten to tell mom.  If she goes anyway, tell mom.  Your sister is seriously putting herself at risk and if anything happens to her and you don't tell mom she left, you will feel horrible!!  Your sister may need counseling.  But if you don't say anything to your mom about it, she won't know that your sister needs help.  PLEASE don't keep this from your mom, tell for your sister's safety.

Answer 6

sometimes they just have to make their own mistakes to be able to learn by them, maybe you should give ur mom a heads up in a casual way.  Talk to your sister and tell her that you are very worried about her and try to find out why shes doing all this stuff in the first place.