What can do about my husband?

Question

my husband and are are having our first baby in nov. and all i hear from him is how I'm selfish and only think about the baby. and that i didn't include him. but when i ask what he'd like for me to change he tells me that he shouldn't have to tell me i should just know . I'm going out of my mind. i don't know what to say to him. hes a great guy and husband but he turned into a big p***! and its hurting our marriage please help

Answer 1

you know honey, i'm pregnant too 35 weeks, and it seems that i'm the one having  the baby and my husband all the hormones!!

I know what you mean but sometimes they just feel left out from the experience because they don't get to do anything but the obvious first thing. So that is there way of dealing with it, just being PMS all the time,  

Answer 2

I think he's feeling jealous of your attention on the baby, and doesn't want to actually say that. maybe try spending time going on walks with him for an hour or so in the evenings, and talk while you are strolling along somewhere nice. play and joke with him, maybe he feels left out and feels  

that things have really changed since you got pregnant and is feeling insecure. good luck.  

Answer 3

He is sounding a little like a woman, but people are people and everybody has needs.

He might be feeling ignored because there's another person in the picture. Take it from a fairly sensitive man (meaning myself). Just assure him that he is the person that you are totally in love with and the baby isn't taking any of that from him. But also tell him that the baby is both of yours and you both need to express love to the baby and eachother.

Keep in mind that us guys need and respond to constant reassurance.

Congrats and good luck.

Answer 4

He is probably feeling left out because there is not much that he can do while you are preg. to help with the baby.

Just be sure to include him in all the phases of your pregnancy and the planning.

Let him help pick out the room color, bedding, clothes, etc...