What can i ask for? am i greedy????

Question

well, its almost my 13th bday and i think thats a pretty big step. but i dont think my parents or anyone in the house gives a care. duude seriously i ask for something for my birthday and they give me this whole lecure on how greedy i am. and im like hellooo you didnt give me anyting last year!!! yea thats right, last year they only threw a small crappy party that i planned alomost all by myself. thats it, no gifts. and i know that were not rich and that were not in a good position. but i mean, dont i get anything? are they gonna open their eyes when im like moving out and say "gee kids grow up so fast"

they dont wanna give me a bag/purse nor a handbag nor a camera nor clothes i suggested little things like lotions earrings and perfume. they said ill thinnk about it. but they said it when they say things just to make me shut up. they promised me the IPHONE now not even TINY THINGS. what can i ask for??? every time we go to the store they but clothes for my sister. and theyre like well she doesnt have clothes. and she does i always walk in her room and its full of clothes scattered on the floor. and plus since shes rlly chubby and my clothes fit her, i constantly give her some of my clothes or else she steals them. seriously. just plz help me

Answer 1

You don't sound greedy, your parents sound unfair.

Why in the world will they not get you a present?

You're going to be a teenager, they should realize that this is a big change in your life, you're not a child anymore.

I think you should quit asking, and keep quiet about the present,

and see what happens.

They will probably suprise you with an Iphone if you don't ask for anything.

Happy Early Birthday, btw!!

Answer 2

well, I gues it is wrong of them. And I don't think your too greedy, but you'll have to accept you parent's greed. I feel bad for you. But when you're grown up and have a great job, they'll come to you for money.

and you can say, "Remember when I was a kid?"

Answer 3

your a normal 13 year old..

maybe your parents don't have the money.

just suck it up and don;t be a brat.

Answer 4

im sorry... you need to show them this... tell them you dont want anything big... you would just like to go out to eat and get to buy clothes.. just be honest... if it doesnt work... your just goin to have to accept it.. theyre your parents.. you be old enough soon to where you wont need your parents to buy you anything or share your bday with u.. why dont u go out with ur friends...ur friends will have your back..  

Answer 5

How about don't ask you can give hints but don't ask thats tacky. how can they surprise you if they tell you anyway.

Answer 6

NO! Your parents are so treating you unfairly and just tell them how you feel.  

Answer 7

i remember one year my parents got me c**p. not even a cake or card. i think they forgot about my b-day in the first place. i made them get me something the next year though.

Answer 8

Perhaps they are planning you a surprise party.  ???  13 is a big deal so you never know.  What until your birthday to see what they do.

Good luck!

Answer 9

ok

im sorry

but if you need to get a newspaper job

your parents are obviously not going to get you anything

so you are just going to have to get it for yourself, right?

You can sell stuff or sell newspaper, maybe candy.

come up with something or remain broke with no money

and as for your sister, everytime she takes your clothes steal one of hers and hide it somewhere  

Answer 10

Yeah, congrats.. You are trully acting like a 13yr old. Perhaps your parents have other things they need to make sure are paid before getting something for you.  

Answer 11

parents cant always afford things. money is tight in today's economy.

Answer 12

Get a babysitting job and start getting stuff for yourself and don't share anything with them and if they threaten to take it away call the police and report your property stolen because if you buy it you own it, if it was gifted to you then you own. They favor their baby!