What can i do about my brother?!?!?!!!

Question

I have 1 older brother and he's 14, im 13, he's so annoying! He says i have no respect for him and he thinks he the "boss" just because he's 6ft and plays football! My best friend slept over yesterday and didnt leave us alone! I kept telling him to get out but he didnt and it made me so mad! Also, he didnt let us play the rock band and u know wat? im the 1 that wanted the the game and my mom got us(me) it, but it was only for the xbox 360. i always have to ask my brother if i can play it. or sometimes he thinks its HIS just because its in his Xbox, so he says no. its not fair!! Why cant he just leave me alone and shut up about things like telling me, "your ugly, thats y u dont have a boyfriend" then thats when i get mad and tell him to shut up because i bet girls wouldnt want to date a guy who bosses around his little sister and makes fun or her! what can i do about this? how can i calm myself down!??!

Answer 1

So....my older brother is 8 years older.  we're a little older now, a little wiser.  And i've come to the conclusion that your older brother is always gonna rag on you whether you like it or not.  It's just the way siblings work.  You could try being more patient with him.  From the way he seems to be around you it just seems like he's playing the older bro card.  start playing his game, and you'll find yourself enjoying being a teenager.  And once he DOES get a girlfriend you'll be seeing a lot less of him, i promise.

THEN THAT"S WHY HE"S BOTHERING YOU SO OFTEN.  his girlfriend is out of town so he has nothing better to do.  Make some time to hang out with him.  Even if you don't want to just find something outside of the house that the both of you can do so you can both get some fresh air and have some fun.  Go to a skate park or paintballing.  Tell your mom it is for a good cause.

Answer 2

Write him a letter or email telling him all the things you hate when he does it to you , make sure you jot down every detail then when you are done read over it a few times, and then throw it away or dont send it IT WILL WORK WONDERS IT GOT ME THROUGH 16 years with an older brother

Answer 3

i can understand that it is depressing for you but u can do some other thhings which make u happy...which have no concers with your brother....make him feel that u dont need him...talk less to him....he will surely be on the right path...

u have asked really great question......i am also a brother like this.....and let me tell u ........ i am not happy due to this behavior....i want to be a good brother....i want to keep my younger sister happy....but i have some problems that stop me from doing this....being honest, one problem is that i have no gf.....it furustrates me and i dont give attention to my sister......with this, i also don't have good relations with my elder brother....now it's just u who know this....i have not shared this with anyone....

hope it will help u...

Answer 4

Start a journal and write all your frustrations down. It worked wonders for me.