What can i do about my mean older sister?

Question

My older sister and I ALWAYS argue with eachother. And now it seems like our arguements seem to get out of hand.And it's usually about stupid things.

I know it's normal to argue with siblings,but we argue almost everyday!

It's horrible. She constantly tells me hurtful things that I would NEVER dare to say.

she tells me that I wish i was dead.Or that she fxckin hates me.And tells me to go to h**l and cusses A LOT. i know it sounds really stupid to be sensitive about that,but it still really hurts to hear such harsh comments. For one thing I never dared to cuss at her (i find cussing immature) and I've never wished her dead.And honestly I would never wish anything like that.I have tried to tell her to stop but she never does.

how can i get her tostop saying hurtful things?

Answer 1

Honestly there's nothing you can do about it.

As an older sister I know.

I can't help but to be mean to my little brother even though he has done nothing wrong.

I guess since he's soooo annoying, it just comes off like I'm mean to him all the time.

Don't stress about it.

I'm mean to my younger brother because I love him.

Yeah I know it sounds weird but thats how I show my love for him.

My older brother is the same way towards me and my little brother.

But not all the time like I am.

I guess its just a sibling thing.

It cant be helped.

I just like my space and my brother like to be all up in my face.

So, yeah.

Dont stress its just how she shows her love for you.

Answer 2

Cry. If she doesn't stop it then (or at least tone it down) she would be a real she-devil.

Answer 3

its not stupid to be upset about that u have every right to not wan thtose things said to u, you need to stand up for your self and instead of engaging in the arguments tell her you will not tolerate her cusiing and screaming at you, dont just ignore it, because ignoring never works but it may be best to walk away from her after you have told her very aggressively not to cuss or yell at you. tell her if she cant talk to you in a mature way then she cant talk to you at all.

Answer 4

just tell her sincerely that you love her and turn and walk away. that way the fighting is over and sooner or later she will stop saying hurtful things to you. also quit doing whatever you do to get her irate to start the arguments. that will help too.

Answer 5

I would tell your parents. I know that may be childish but it is worth it if it makes your home life better. I think maybe she doesn't know how to express herself and that is the only way she can get her feelings out. I think maybe to make your relationship stronger you should find a way to talk to each other. Good luck.

Answer 6

when she begins to swear at you tell her to stop being a child and completely ignore her. If she's that immature, ignoring her will tick her off. She probably doesn't mean it, she's probably PMSing.

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Answer 7

Fill her with "Kindness" when she is being mean to you tell her you love her and don't want to argue (in a calm normal voice) then walk away (it takes two to argue) and let her "think about it". It sounds like she has a lot of anger that may not be your fault even though she takes it out on you. Remember she won't argue alone so don't make yourself available. If she is a devil as you say then pray for her and your relationship because the devil's job is to "destroy" and the only way to beat the devil is through prayer. You cannot control her actions only your own. God Bless

Answer 8

lol my mom told me to drop dead a few days ago (in japanese)

and she also told me that im a waste of a fetus (in japanese)

said she blames me for her obese physique ever since she gave birth to me (in japanese)

She can barely speak english and called me a sonofabitch (in english)

bless her