What can i do about my parents?

Question

Well today they told me to clean and i did clean i did everything they told me to do, every single little thing and they promised me that i would get to hang out with my friends but at least minute they aren't letting me go cause i didn't wake earlier to do my tasks and it makes me so mad, they refuse to talk to me, they also say thats its the same conversation, so they absolutely refuse to talk and they talk, it feels like my mother is trying to make me on check or something and im just a kid thats wants to hang out with my friends

is that so much to ask for?

i dont really know

i dont wanna go into depression cause of this or do anything ill regret

im tired of it, i just wanna run away

Answer 1

hide. they'll get worried, so u can have the amusement of watching them freak.

Answer 2

ASK YOUR PARENTS IF YOUR FRIENDS CAN HANG OUT AT YOUR HOUSE, THEY MAY FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE KNOWING WHERE YOU ARE AND THAT YOUR IN A SAFE ENVIROMENT. MY OWN CHILDREN ARE MARRIED NOW AND REALLY ENJOYED OUR HOME BEING ONE THAT THEIR FRIENDS ENJOYED COMING TOO.

Answer 3

Tell them what does it matter what time you got up, you did what they asked so your going out as they agreed with you so just go :)

Answer 4

when you ask to go somewhere be specific like where you're going, who you're with and for how long.. if they continue not letting you go ten ask them specifically why not

Answer 5

I've had a similar problem with my parents when I was a child. I remember me and my brother have been giving up socializing at some point. And than, one day .... I remember it like it was yesterday. ... it was Tuesday, I had little homework to do so I've finished quickly and than ... as an obedient child who wants to go out and play, I first went and asked my mother if she let me. Her answer...."NO" .....no questions asked, no reasons given ..... just a straight "NO"......I've obviously asked "Why not" and she said "cause it's a weeks day and therefore you must have homework to do" ......."I finished them", I've answered .... She replied "Don't be impertinent" ......and she didn't let me go....

So .... do not give up........you're parents are probably overprotective.....so you need to show them that they can trust you and your judgment .......but also you have to "educate"  them. One of my school mates once told them that "we have the parents that we've risen"  ...... so.....rise them to give you more freedom! .....

But take care.....it's all about manipulating ... not about imposing.

At first, you should state out what you did, and than .... as conclusion ....tell them what you would like to do (not that they must, but that you are asking for their permission) ..... Like, for instance, in the situation you've presented above , you should have tried to tell them something like:

"You know, I've cleaned my room, I've done my homework and I have no more chores left .... Since it's still early and my some of my friends are still out.......could I please go out and play with them for the remaining time of the day?"

Than, you should take it slowly. Like, for instance, now you are going out once a week (4 times a month) ...... you could try one week to get an extra day out (5 times a month) .... and than gradually increase the period till it covers your needs ...... but in a way that would not be to sudden and make them react defensive.

Good luck to you .... and don't give up ..... consider this a challenge, instead. You will have many more other challenges in life and you need to learn how to succeed.