What can i do about my son?

Question

OK, well last night he lost his girlfriend of 8 years. all 13 of his best friends told him its over they arent friends anymore. he tried to OD but it didnt work because he had took natural pills. He has summer school doesnt see any of his old friends and x becuase he goes to a different school well i sent him to school he was just crying all day gettin called a pus*sy or wimp he got in 5 different fights today his grandpa picked him up from school brought him home. my son was criying on the couch my dad told him shut the h**l up my son went after him and was hitting him as hard as he could let him go and my dad fell to the ground. i dont know what to do. his friends were all he had i know i should be there for him but i dont know what to say they are letting him come to school tomorrow. im really worried about letting him in school hes on probation right now too.

what should i do??

Answer 1

The best thing you can do is get him counseling. Being told it's okay by your mom is one thing, being told by a therapist that it's okay is another. A therapist will also be objective and suggest ways to help your son that you might not think of.

Hitting his grandfather is unacceptable however grandad might have been a little more feeling than "shut the h*ll up". If he is trying to kill himself get help NOW. He failed last time but if he keeps trying he won't.

Answer 2

Ah, story of my life I am afraid been through the exact same things lost just about everything and everyone close to me very fast just like your son tryed to kill my self 2 times and old friends stoped me 2 more times just let him see a counselor they should help him out a lot, it sure helped me out a lot that's for sure I really should be dead but I got a 2nd chance at life and I am very happy bout that that was just one year ago also. Just let him know no matter what never get up no matter how corny it sounds things all ways seem to work there self out I am a example of that. =]

Good luck

- Tyler

Answer 3

Talk to him and ask him if he can handle going to school. He's gong through a lot right now....it's better of you to be on his side as much as you can right now so he knows you understand and feel for him in his time of need.

Answer 4

wow, he's had a gf since he was FIVE, now thats a true playa, starting at the age of five, WOW

Answer 5

He was dating at FIVE years of age? Really unlikely story!

Answer 6

how old is he.

Answer 7

o you poor things. You need 2 talk to your son and tell him it is ok. He needs 2 kno there is more girls in the world fo him. You really need to talk to him or things could get worse.

Answer 8

It sounds like you're son has some issues. I would go for a therapist

Answer 9

He really just needs you to be a mom right now.  Let him know that you care and you are there for him.  Help him find an outlet for his emotions.  For my son I put him in kickboxing because it built up his confidence in himself (he is only 12 though).  Lots of luck.

Answer 10

omgosh

tell him i said dont worry about those people, and that he will get a new girlfriend who really loves him

tell him that since school is starting soon he will make new friends

tell him i said not to worry and i hope he feels better

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