What can i do aou my situation , plz help or suggest things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I am ingaged now and i dont knowifi can continue with this i live with her and her faily currently and shes still finishing up high school, umm we met at school an the last 5 months have been sooo awesome and i am sooo in love with theperson i kow she really is and i jus wanther to be herself and open up to me some more, i dot smother her at all i try to keep my distance lil when shes mad and confort her wn shes feeling down, i jus fee like shes getting bored of me and i thought i knew wat i was doing but now im jus so lost in this forest in this relationship and dont know what to even do i love her and i thought we werein love andshe just wanted to be with me forever but now her looking at other guys whn were not together, and misterious txts she wont let me see anymore, and talking coming from herroom at night and a few other things made me think she might be cheating on mewhen im at work cuz i work alot, but i had to stop worring abou that and stop thinking bou that but now the las few weeks she has ben distant looking and flirting with guys and trying to hide it, and when before we go to bed she doesnt play flirt or gve me a rea kiss or hug she jusruns off to her room . andone more thing tonight she sashe wanted to have s*x but wante to wait , andaid the same thing last night and i made a movelast night and she said she didnt want to, and then tonigt i said fine we will just wait , and she got all pissed and said night its gettng late at like 10pm, and she didntevn give me a hug or tucmein or nething like she used to, and i jus dnt know wats up

Answer 1

just go up to her and ask if anythings up cuz your staring to trip and you want to know the truth aboutanything she might be hiding? if  theres anything going on... and if she doesnt want to say anything dump her and find a new girl. dont get played

Answer 2

She's not ready to settle down.  She opened her eyes to the fact that she still has a lot of life to live before committing to one person. She probably does care about you alot.  She may love you also, but that doesn't mean she wants to settle down and get married right out of highschool.  

The fact that she is interested in other people may mean that she has issues with you that she doesn't feel that you are THE ONE for her.

You need to move out of her parents home and let the relationship go.  You think she is cheating or trying to.  There is no trust there.  It's not good man.  You need to take a breather or move on.

Give her the space and time to grow up.

Answer 3

It sounds like you guys may not be ready for all this. She is still very young. Being in love and in high school can be confusing. I would try to slow things down, but stay in a committed relationship. It is a lot of pressure to be in a serious relationship to young. You have forever to marry her. Give her a bit of space and tell her you will propose properly in a few years if you guys are still moving in that direction.

If you move to fast to soon you will likely crash and burn and that can be heart breaking. I do hope you guys can figure a way to make it work.

Answer 4

First off, next time you spell, make sure it's grammatically correct. I don't know how old you are, but it sound like 18 or something. She's obviously got a wondering eye, so I'd talk to her about it. If she's hesitant, that means she's hiding something, and that's no good. So talk, then you'll know what to do, even if leaving comes to it.  

Answer 5

duuudee one of my very very good frendz was wit a person

she love 4 5 freaken years and they lived together I

think you should get to know her more like I know you really reallyyyyyyyy love her but maybe just wait a few years to get goi g before marrage